A man’s boredom with inherent gender relations has its own subjective reasons as well as objective factors. The woman’s own lethargy and numbness about love can also make men feel disinterested. In the face of cheating men, many women just grit their teeth and make a lot of noise, which is actually a stupid way to get his heart back to reunite the broken home, the first thing you should do is to analyze the reasons, to see if there is a value and possibility of redemption. If you can really get it back, then you have to spare no effort to use every way to solve this tricky problem.
The secret match method
and the third party hiding in the shadows The third party in the shadows. The most important thing is to give your husband more consideration and care, such as improving your cooking skills, cooking more of your husband’s favorite dishes to tie his stomach; understanding and respecting your husband’s hobbies and interests, and if possible, trying to share some fun with him; taking the initiative to give him personal space to make him feel that you are understanding; or coming up with interesting ideas to give him a new feeling… …In short, let him be firmly attracted to you as if he just met you. Then he won’t have to look elsewhere for something new.
Psychologist’s analysis: Men are bored with inherent gender relationships for their own subjective reasons as well as objective ones. The woman’s own lethargy and numbness for love can also make men feel bored. Although not to the point of intolerable to each other, but also has been drifting away. When the man is full of resentment for cheating, you may also want to look back at yourself and the two of you married life. If you are willing to make changes, don’t take this as simply pleasing the man either, this is your effort to make your own love and happiness.
The discipline blackmail method
Once a man
Once a man “splits”, he can outwardly remain unmoved, but secretly first take charge of the family’s economic power, using family finances as a reason to make him contribute most of his income; take the initiative to promote affection with his children, and form an alliance with them, plausibly making him feel isolated.
At the same time, hint that you already know about him and let him consider the possible consequences for himself. Of course, if you don’t really want to break up with him, don’t be in a hurry to open up to him and show your cards. If you’re not sure what you’re talking about, you’ll be able to get back on your feet.
Psychologist’s analysis: The economy and children are a man’s weaknesses, and as long as he’s not in too deep, he’ll hang on for these two reasons. Although not without consequences, but for a betrayed wife and family infidelity of the man, even if a slight disciplinary action, the intention is still to let him go astray. Of course, if you want the future to last, there will have to be more constructive communication and exchange.
The Proactive Approach
Rather than being passive, you can Take the initiative and ask that third party out directly to talk about it. I believe you will also be curious to know what kind of person the other party is. The relationship between women is very delicate, especially in cases like yours. Although there are hard feelings, it’s easy to gain release and communication once one of you takes the first step.
As a woman, the other person may understand your feelings and admire your courage. But if unfortunately you meet a bent or unreasonable third party, you may also want to come up with your boldness and dominance. Since there must be a decision, then all three people have to make a choice without retreat. Of course, we are all adults and can be open and honest with each other without turning the ending into a farce.
Psychologist’s analysis: You are the most innocent and the most righteous one in the whole affair. If the most power-impulsive parties are taking a rational approach, then everyone can think about the problem very calmly. What to do or not to do may be weighed and the result will be there. The quick and rational is cruel, but also the most effective. Don’t be afraid that it won’t turn out the way you want it to, at least you’ve made the best choice.
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