We always hear many women complaining that their boyfriends evaporate after making out, and they can’t find him anymore. Perhaps it is because of this that men have been given the reputation of being “philandering carrots”. So why do men only want to make out and do not want to be responsible for it? The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get the best out of the company.
Wanting to make out is natural
As the saying goes
As the saying goes, “The love of beauty is in everyone’s heart”, and both men and women will unconsciously look over when they see something beautiful. And some studies have shown that a certain hormone in men’s bodies can stimulate men’s brains, so that men can’t help but be tempted in front of beauty. Perhaps this can also explain why most women for the beauty of the male are holding an appreciation of the perspective, while the male female beauty will always show a lustful look. And there are a lot of men in the philandering cheating, the body is like some kind of hormone control some, do lose their minds.
In this way it is easy to understand why most men desire to have premarital sex, but for them it is one thing to have sex in a relationship and another to get married. Many men, due to certain hormonal influences, may have a desire to be intimate during a relationship with their girlfriends, but they won’t want to be responsible, so why is that?
1. Being responsible comes with a heavy price tag:
Being responsible It also means getting married and starting a family, which means paying the price. In today’s Chinese society, people are becoming more and more utilitarian, and many girls are becoming more and more gold-digging, treating marriage as a money transaction and as an important way to transform their lives. Therefore, don’t try to marry her without a house, car, or ticket.
Even if a girl truly loves you and is willing to marry you, her parents’ family will definitely not let you pass so easily because they don’t want their daughter to suffer by marrying you. Therefore, the high price of housing and bride price makes many men deterred from marriage.
2. He doesn’t love you enough:
Some people might want to say that The house bride price or whatever is an external factor, if a man loves you enough, then no matter how much external resistance he encounters, he will definitely break through the wall and be with you. The other reason why men just want to make out but don’t want to be responsible is that he doesn’t love you enough.
Maybe he just thinks of you as one of those women in the sex industry, or in his mind you’re just a tool to solve a physical problem, or maybe he likes you a little, but it’s unlikely that he’ll get married, and he’s not willing to let himself be tied down for you from now on. Because he feels that you are not worthy to make him so pay. So ultimately, the reason he doesn’t want to be responsible is because he doesn’t love you enough.
3. Most men yearn for freedom, and many men believe that getting married means losing their freedom. They can no longer go out with friends to dazzle, can no longer come home late or stay out all night, because there will be a woman waiting for them at home, once they come home late the phone will ring like a series of shells. How many men are willing to lose their freedom and be restrained in this way?
Although I gave you a list of three reasons, but in fact it can be summarized into one point, the reason why men only want to make out and do not want to be responsible is just because his love is not enough, he is not willing to give up his freedom for someone, but also not willing to go for someone The reason why the man only wants to make out and does not want to be responsible is because his love is not enough, he is not willing to give up his freedom for someone, and not willing to fight for someone.