Love is just a game, even if you are a smart player, you have to abide by the rules of the game, forget about the rules, forget about the distance, the only one who suffers is yourself. This rule is nothing more than a kind of as if the degree of separation, know how to attract men, not control men, know how to afford to let go, not sink into the river of love can not be extricated. The most important thing is to give each other some space, and love may be better.
One, don’t test the man often, and don’t threaten to break up. When you give him such hints often, his subconscious mind will be ready to break up.
II. Don’t expand your rights without limits just because a man loves you, don’t interfere with his ideals, beliefs and pursuits, he must have some traits that you don’t understand.
Three, don’t believe in the phrase “If you love me, you should know what I think”, which is a complete nonsense, no one knows exactly what the other person thinks. It is silly to conclude that a man does not love you because he does not know what you are thinking in time.
Four, don’t be late often, don’t think a man loves you he should have unlimited patience, a man’s patience has a limit, patience wears out, it wears out love.
five, do not often ask men to accompany you shopping, not many men really like shopping, the ultimate end of forced is resistance.
Six, what a man does for a girl in the heat of the moment, don’t expect him to last all the way through later in life; smart girls usually discount it by 50%.
VII. Don’t try to change the man, don’t think he will become your ideal good male under your tutelage, it is wiser to adapt to him than to change him.
Eight, don’t be overconfident about your charm, not many men will permanently withstand the backlash, not many men can be recruited to come and go, unless, of course, the man has a motive to love you.
9. Don’t use this mindset to guide your love – look for evidence in a man’s words and actions that he doesn’t love you. A man can’t focus his energy on a woman every moment, and he can’t notice every hint or displeasure from a woman. When you use a magnifying glass to find dust, you will always get it.
Ten, don’t compare your man to other men, don’t say he’s not as romantic or considerate as others. Everyone is special and loves differently, and saying this often can make love a mental burden.
11. If a man is close to you again, don’t hurt his self-esteem, whether in front of others or alone, hurt is hurt, whether he loves you or not.
twelve, when a man is thinking, try not to disturb him, he sometimes needs the pleasure of being alone, that does not prove that he does not love you.
XIII. Don’t expect to get a man with sex, it’s the least reliable way to capture a man, because love has nothing to do with the flesh.
XIV. Always keep a little mystery in front of a man, don’t reveal everything about yourself to a man 100%, a man who is too full is anorexic and not grateful.
XV. Love is a magnet, not a rope, and it is better to bind him than to attract him. A rope will give a man the desire to break free, while a magnetic field will give him the illusion of freedom, and an eternal temptation.