The post-90s are a much lonelier generation.
The post-90s crowd is forever overflowing with a sense of loneliness, a defense against the outside world, and the post-90s generation, undeniably, is prematurely worldly. There are certainly reasons for this in family education. In the 1990s, China’s economy had developed well, and this generation was not lacking in material things since childhood, but with it came higher expectations from their parents, and most of the post-90s who grew up in the city attended various extracurricular classes since childhood, and were taught by their parents to deal with various people since childhood. “But there are no partners around, all are rivals, all are rivals to win or lose in the class performance! So many of the post-90s crowd, used to fighting, many of my post-90s female readers write in, unapologetically admit that they do not resent being a junior, and that, as long as there is a chance to grab the love, they will try! The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
At the same time, the post-90s have a naturally high sense of self. The newest addition to the list is the newest addition to the list. In the “flowering years”, five distinctive girls, with their own weaknesses, behind all the performance, are the “I consciousness” in play: especially the unisex girl refused to make the slightest compromise with her parents; clean girl feel that the world outside me is full of dust; beautiful school girl always want to show the most stunning style …… When a person feels that I am more important than everything, the contradictions of the post-90s and this era, collide fiercely! But at the end of the day, it is the word loneliness that causes trouble. The post-90s seem to be able to be comfortable in interpersonal interactions, but the ability to make friends with people is extremely poor, and very often, they have a thought in their mind, but the action is something. The company’s main goal is to provide a more comprehensive and effective solution to the problem.
Of course, the post-90s are a generation that is more eager to be ambitious. The first time a magazine did a survey on the psychology of post-90s life. The most admired feminine traits”, “intellectual, spontaneous, ambitious”, defeated “innocent, sexy, gentle” and other traditional feminine traits, became the majority of the 90s. The majority of the post-90s population chose the question. It can be seen that the top three feminine charms, such as knowledgeable, spontaneous and ambitious, reveal that post-90s girls are more in pursuit of independent personality and more eager to have dominance in life and work. post-90s will be more ambitious in life, and in their future emotional life, girls will have more desire to “take charge”. In the program, I was impressed by a girl from a very good family, who lived in the city where she lived, was distant from her family and spent her days playing with her playmates. But when she arrived at that farmhouse deep in the mountains, she became a big sister, giving orders. She has a domineering, disregard for the feelings of others, but also her passion for people. Whichever way you look at it, the thing that makes a post-90s girl more accomplished is the admiration of the people around her. Often when people are still immature as adults, what they desire most is to be treated as a real powerhouse! This is exactly what the post-90s are doing at this stage!
There is always a deep feeling when you are in contact with people in their twenties: they are always eager to show more maturity.
Sometimes I feel sorry for them. When you are young, everyone aspires to mature overnight, but when you really wait until you get older day by day, you realize how wonderful it is to stretch out your youth a little more!
When you’re young, don’t impose too many adult things on yourself, because there’s plenty of time in your future life for you to slowly experience all the various joys and sorrows of adulthood.
When you are still young, try your best to be a young person, or even try your best to be a “child”, when you can be simple, don’t try your best to approach complexity, otherwise you will feel less of a happy experience in your future life!
The post-90s have their own scars in their hearts. But every kind of growth comes with natural pain, and learning to get used to pain and endure it is also the real maturity!