When faced with a man’s “cheating”, 63% of women choose to leave the “cheap guy” and not trust his mouth, 23% of women choose to forgive the man and ask themselves if it’s their fault; 13% pretend they don’t know. Pretend not to know. The woman who is the most popular of the two is the one who is the most popular.
One, the discipline blackmail method:
Once the man “cheated”, the surface can not make a sound, but secretly first in charge of the family’s economic power, the family financial management as the reason, let him pay most of the income; initiative and children to promote feelings, and children
I think it’s a good idea to have a good understanding of the family.
And hint that you already know about him and let him think about the possible consequences. Of course, if you don’t really want to cut him off, don’t be in a hurry to open up to him and show your cards. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the company’s business.
A psychologist’s analysis: The economy and children are a man’s weaknesses, and as long as he’s not in too deep, he’ll hang on to them for both reasons. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Of course, for the future to last, there will be more constructive communication and exchange.
Two, the secret match method:
Take on a third party who is hiding in the shadows. The first is to give your husband more thoughtfulness and care, such as improving your cooking skills, cooking more of your husband’s favorite dishes to tie his stomach; understanding and respecting your husband’s hobbies and interests, and if possible, trying to share some of the fun with him; taking the initiative to give him personal space to make him feel that you are understanding; or coming up with amorous ideas to give him a whole new feeling… …In short, let him be firmly attracted to you as if he just met you. Then he won’t have to look elsewhere for something new.
Psychologist’s analysis: Men are bored with the inherent gender relationship for their own subjective reasons as well as objective ones. The woman’s own lethargy and numbness about love can also make men feel disinterested. Although not to the point of intolerable to each other, but also has been drifting away. When the man is full of resentment for cheating, you may also want to look back at yourself and the two of you married life. If you’re willing to make changes, don’t think of it as simply pleasing the man, it’s your effort to make your own love and happiness.
Three, the proactive method:
Rather than being passive, take the initiative and just ask that third party out to talk about it. I believe you will also be curious to know what kind of person the other party is. Relationships between women are delicate, especially in situations such as yours. Although there are hard feelings, it’s easy to gain release and communication once one of you takes the first step.
As a woman, the other person may understand how you feel and admire your courage. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Since there must be a decision, then all three people have to make a choice without retreat. Of course, we are all adults and can be open and honest with each other without turning the ending into a farce.
Psychologist’s analysis: You are the most innocent and the most righteous one in the whole affair. If the most power-impulsive parties all take a rational approach, then everyone can think about the problem very calmly. What to do or not to do may be weighed and the result will be there. The quick and rational is cruel, but also the most effective. Don’t be afraid that it won’t turn out the way you want it to, at least you’ve made the best choice.