Throughout history, the special job of prostitutes is to let the johns ravage them, but there is one thing that many people may not know yet, and that is: they only have sex with their johns, and do not want to kiss them. The first time I read this text in a history textbook, I thought about the other side of human nature, and at the same time, it reminded me of the prostitutes of today.
With this question in mind, I went to a detention center and met several women detained for prostitution. Once again, their conversation confirmed this, and the consistency of their views was not a matter of how far they had fallen.
This 27- or 28-year-old prostitute came to Wuhan from Guizhou because her family was poor and wanted to make some money for her activities. She had a hard time finding a job as a nanny, and her employer pays her a hundred yuan a month. She deflated her mouth and said to me, in their home a wipe with ten miscellaneous down hard work can not get rich. Later, she was enlightened after reading an expose on prostitutes in a magazine, saying that a prostitute had written on a brief message sent to her family’s money order: “The men here are very stupid, the money is very good to get very good, tell the women in the village to come quickly. She had heard about the scandals in the beauty parlors and thought, “This is a way to get rich that doesn’t require anyone to lead the way. If others can make a fortune, why not take a shortcut yourself? And she’s not a virgin, so not only will her husband not see it when she’s full of money, he’ll be impressed. The company’s newest product is a new product that will be available in the marketplace.
This day, she dressed up and went to a backstreet beauty parlor, only to see the man inside whispering to the lady after a haircut and then went straight up to the second floor. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers. More than an hour passed before the man came out in a daze. She understood that she did not go to the wrong door, and did not need much verbal to smoothly become a “beauty lady”. She has been doing this ever since.
She talked with her legs apart, rocking in and out, her eyes staring at me as if she were interviewing me, fluently talking about the process of man-woman sex, which seemed to her like boiling water, and emphasizing that “it’s not bad”. I said I understand this profession she approved, but I came today to find out, willing to kiss with johns? Her casual expression suddenly became serious, she said the only difficult thing to do is this, and johns to do that thing is numb, thinking about the money psychological balance. As for kissing with the john, because kissing is purely a sensual thing, is not transferred by your will, it touches every cell of the body, no matter how hard it is to cater. But after all, others are paid to come, often then close their eyes tightly, try to avoid, sometimes can not help it will simply push the guests away from their own body, let him relentlessly again in their own body venting also unwilling to kiss with it. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
What I never expected was that a prostitute would think this way. Her expression slowly became deeper. She said, to put it bluntly, this business is poor and afraid to do it, and many things do not want to think. If you don’t have a little bit of the spirit of Q, it’s very tiring to live.
At my request, I met with another slightly older woman in prostitution. When I bluntly asked about the difference between kissing and prostitution, the first words of this woman, who had not even graduated from elementary school, made me laugh uncontrollably. She said, “It’s all just a bunch of stinky mouths that spoil the fun and leave you breathless like a pig trough. Do that thing are marked real price, but also what package of kissing, if that I will not work with him, let him spoil the fun. I said, don’t you think that’s putting the cart before the horse? She asked me, what do I mean by putting the cart before the horse. I said, it’s a reversal of priorities, let’s say, sex with a man you don’t know is always much more serious than kissing. She said, doing that is like relieving yourself, it’s very natural, but kissing is different, breathing, smells are dissolved into the lungs, it feels like your mouth is dipped in the toilet. I can’t help but hold my breath every time, but my breath is short and it’s so uncomfortable.
It seemed to me that she spoke with the demeanor of being in a deserted mountain, without a care in the world, not knowing what to say and what not to say. I think the johns are really thirsty, otherwise how could they be passionate about such a woman?
Sex is a primitive, low-level need, and kissing is a relatively sacred thing that only human beings can perceive. The most natural way to show love is to kiss a man and a woman in the process of falling in love, but no one envisions the paradox of kissing and sex, so no one ever asks such a seemingly bizarre question. This topic, which extends from the mindset of prostituted women, certainly has some implications for our understanding of the nature of human beings and our look at the world of human emotions.