What does a man like in a woman? In fact, men have their own ideas about the perfect woman, and the following “perfect girlfriend” survey shows that there are 7 conditions for a woman to become a man’s favorite. How many of them do you meet? Let’s take a look!
How do women know what they dream of in a relationship and what a woman should be like if men don’t tell them? The “Perfect Girlfriend” survey, in which 2,000 men participated, helped. The results of the survey revealed to the world the 7 conditions that men think the perfect woman should have! Oh, don’t rush to give your opinion, but let’s hear what he has to say first.
1. Laugh with me – or laugh at me
Seeing her in “Victoria’s Secret” (a premium lingerie brand) is not the ultimate goal in our pursuit of women. According to the survey, only 12% of men value only their body and looks when dealing with women, and more than 75% of men surveyed see humor, wit and grace as the top criteria for choosing a girlfriend, with humor being the most important – rather, it’s a measure of a partner’s ” The most important of these is humor – a measure of a partner’s “brain fit,” to be exact.
Humor plays three roles in a relationship. First, it is a “firefighter” that calms anger and reduces the number of arguments. Second, it helps us find a common language and determine whether we share the same views on the same matter. And last but not least, it shows women’s courage – the courage to laugh and laugh at themselves. A woman’s intelligence shines through in the humor of her talk, and we are captivated.
Listen to her: Do men ignore a woman’s body and looks in favor of her intelligence? Not very believable, right! Moreover, the sense of humor is interactive and needs to be mutually stimulating. I’m afraid we have to get men to be funny before we can judge whether a woman is funny or not! (30% female support)
2. Love me, let the world know
97% of men surveyed want their girlfriends to show their love in public. Women who are brave enough to show their love in public are usually very confident – in their relationships and in themselves. Of course, such a show of affection does not mean a chicken-pecking at our faces in full view of the public. A soft kiss on a stroll or a loving glance over the heads of a crowd at a dinner party will also fill our hearts with love. How to master the intimacy? Just look at our reactions. If we want our lover to get closer, our bodies will move closer to them or our eyes will be filled with tenderness, not embarrassment.
Listen to her: I’m afraid that asking women to show love like nobody’s watching is just for outsiders, right? If we wanted to ask the same of men, would you be willing? (50% female support)
3. Kiss me when I’m depressed
When we’re down and out, 67% of men don’t want to see a woman’s sympathetic tears, and simply stroking our unruly hair or straightening our crooked collar to show comfort is certainly not enough.
What should a truly thoughtful, understanding girlfriend look like? “A man wants a woman to stand up for and defend him in certain situations. Men are willing to accept help from a woman – provided the woman knows when he is most vulnerable and needs a helping hand the most.” said Kleck, an emotional expert who participated in the survey. One thing to note is that men would rather admit they have a weak side than admit their character flaws. So as women help us, please don’t attach your counting and nagging.
Please bring us a bowl of hot soup when we are sick, and kiss our faces to show support when we are having trouble in our careers. Whichever woman gives us a sense of security, we want to be with, otherwise, we just want to run away.
Listen to her: almost 100 percent of women are willing to give such a comforting kiss. The key question is, are men really willing to let us see their vulnerability? They always put on a strong face, as if this is the only way to conquer us. I don’t know, in fact, when they are depressed, our hearts are actually weaker! (95% female support)
4. Compliment me – seriously
Don’t think women are the only ones who care about compliments from their partners, if a woman sincerely says to a man, “You have a great body” or “You have sexy eyes,” our hearts will It will be beautiful. Of course, such compliments are not limited to the body, complimenting us on our good jokes, or complimenting us on our good performance in bed (this is important!) These are all very useful. Only 8% of men surveyed would like to hear a woman’s appreciation of their body, while 66% would prefer to hear compliments on their partner’s “intangibles” such as personality, qualities or the way they handle themselves. Compliments should be sincere and specific – “You were great today!” or “You made me feel very secure!” . (88% female support)
Listen to her: Women don’t usually begrudge compliments, but it’s many self-righteous men who don’t bother to compliment their partners. You know, when we ask you for your opinion on a dress, “it’s okay” is never a good answer.
5. Make a good impression on my friends
Inevitably, we’ll If a woman puts on a cold face for my friend because of this, then 83% of men will feel they can’t hold their heads up in front of their friends. When we take our girlfriends to a party at a bar, we expect her to greet everyone graciously, drink the drinks toasted by her friends without squirming, and make excuses to leave early at the right time, leaving us free space, time. We will take such little things to heart, even if the next time a woman asks us to go shopping with her during the NBA broadcast, we will swallow our complaints. (0% female support)
Listen to her: even though their cigarette butts burn my carpet black, even though they all lie in my house when they’re drunk, even though my significant other gets rude whenever they’re with them? And, I can’t quite believe that he would give up the NBA and go shopping with me!
6. Allow me to be with your friends
We admit We’re jealous, and we also hate the kind of women who put on airs and graces. We know that women sometimes like to flirt with men, and 79% of men are not guilty of being careful as long as they are not suspected of cheating. We want our girlfriends to be attractive in the eyes of others, and it makes us look good.
Please introduce me to your friends, especially male friends, getting to know them would make me a lot less suspicious than I need to be. You can also bring me to parties between you and your friends. You don’t need to take care of me deliberately, just keep eye contact is enough. (73% female support)
Listen to her: Our “buddies” are open and honest, so if you don’t look out for them, there will be peace. On the other hand, look at your “buddies”, they don’t seem so reassuring!
7. Calm our emotions
Men are not naturally “emotionally immune”, we’re just good at hiding it. When you notice that we are a little bit abnormal, it is best to ask a “What’s wrong, is everything okay?” as a sign of concern. If we are willing to talk, then please listen patiently and don’t rush us into a conversation – 34% of men only need a woman’s ear, not her mouth. For a man, it’s enough for a woman to listen carefully to what he’s telling him about his pain, not to help him out.
If our moods don’t improve after we’ve said it, help distract us by helping us forget about a difficult boss or troublesome client for a while. 32% of men are more likely to go out for a drink, watch a movie or cook a meal together. These are all good ways to distract ourselves. (60% female support)
Listen to her: These two sentences should be broken down. When we ask, “What’s wrong,” men respond, “Nothing.”