Many daughters-in-law treat their mothers-in-law with respect and avoidance. But for the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who live under the same roof, hiding is absolutely unavoidable. The actual fact is that you’ll be able to get a lot more than just a couple of days to get a lot more than just a couple of days. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
1. Do your chores, even if you rarely do them.
These days, there are fewer and fewer daughters-in-law doing housework, but more and more houseparents doing housework. The parents have become nannies, cooking food for the whole family, washing and dressing the whole family, cleaning the whole family, watering the whole family and raising flowers, and doing this and that for the whole family. And the daughter-in-law? The princess is more relaxed than the family, and even to the parents-in-law orders. In fact, the daughter-in-law does less housework is no big deal, because the parents are willing. However, not doing any chores or not doing them is a big problem. The family will certainly think: one day we are gone, such a daughter-in-law can take care of the home?
2. Have your own job and don’t eat your husband’s soft food.
As a man you should work hard and take care of your family. The same applies to being a woman. The husband married you home, not to let you four bodies and five fingers do not move meals to open mouth clothes to stretch hands. Even if your husband agrees with you and can afford to let you do so, you’d better not do so. Because the family parents do not like it. Husband is their son, son alone hard struggle will make them heartbroken. You are a daughter-in-law, you should work hand in hand with your husband, at least have a job of their own, no matter how good or bad the job. Women, how can they keep eating their husbands’ soft food?
3. Love your husband well and cherish the happiness of a loving marriage and family.
Love your husband well, as a matter of course. Is it possible to marry a daughter-in-law back so that she can love another man? However, the increasing divorce rate in China is ample proof of the seriousness of the problem between the daughter-in-law and her husband. Of course, the responsibility lies with both parties. However, in the hearts of the parents, the daughter-in-law must first do well. Can not get involved with flowers, can not be watery, can not be red. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
4. Be neighborly and friendly, and do not make enemies with others.
As long as a family is a family, there are bound to be neighbors, just far and near. Living in harmony with neighbors is part of a pleasant family. The daughter-in-law, who is an important social master of the family, has to handle the relationship with her neighbors well. If the daughter-in-law is an enemy of her neighbors, it is not only the neighbors who will be unhappy, not only the daughter-in-law, but also the parents. In other words, the daughter-in-law is the representative of the whole family, so she can’t be sloppy.
5. Let’s not talk about filial piety, but at least know how to respect it.
If it is very filial, then of course it is good. However, the reality is less optimistic. For many parents, a filial daughter-in-law can be unattainable. Well, let’s not talk about filial piety. At the very least, you should know how to respect it. Respect the daily lives of your parents-in-law, respect your parents-in-law’s self-selection, respect your parents-in-law’s psychological space, and respect what should be respected. If you see that you are respectful, your parents will also respect you and thus dote on you.
6. Pay attention to your own demeanor image, don’t lose face for everyone.
Daughters-in-law remember: in the same family, honor and common. Therefore, in the image of demeanor, have to pay close attention. You can’t be too fancy with unkempt hair and clothes, and you can’t be too rude with rude words. Anyway, not to disgrace everyone. If you go overboard, people will surely chant your parents’ names and say, “Their daughter-in-law is really bad.
7. Be friends with your children and don’t scold them.
If you don’t have kids, you can ignore this point. But there shouldn’t be many without children. If you don’t have children, your parents will not be satisfied. If you have a child, you have to treat it well, or your parents will not be satisfied. If you scold your children all day long, making a lot of chatter, how will your parents love you? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
8. Don’t run to your mother’s house twice in three days and don’t badmouth your parents at their home.
Married, it means having two homes. One maternal home and one in-laws home. Both homes are equally important and cannot be biased. However, the reality is that there are very few that are not biased, and most are heavy on the mother’s family and light on the in-laws. The first thing is that it is not a big deal to run to your mother’s house when you have free time, to gather the love of your mother’s family. However, if you run to your mother’s house twice in three days is a bit unjustified. Others must be very puzzled to see, think that the in-laws are not good to stay. The first thing you need to do is to take a step back and say that it’s not a big deal, like running on the run. However, don’t talk badly about your in-laws in your mother’s house. Many daughters-in-law make this kind of low-level mistake, thinking that their parents-in-law can’t hear them. In fact, the bad words spread a thousand miles, the deaf parents will eventually hear. In this way, family wars follow.
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Many daughters-in-law argue and even fight with their parents for one fundamental reason: money. To put it more elegantly, it is called economy. In terms of economic power, how exactly should you divide it with your in-laws? Every daughter-in-law is thinking about it day and night. In fact, the approach is very simple. What is yours is yours after all, don’t be so hasty. Especially don’t be calculating with your parents-in-law. My parents are getting older every day, you can’t make the rest of their lives more enjoyable? Besides, even if they are financially domineering how, in the end is not left to you? The odds of not leaving it to you are very, very small.
10. Good-looking, smart, funny and interesting.
Daughter-in-law looks good, of course the parents like it. After all, this is the glory of their own son. However, the daughter-in-law is not just a bit of window dressing, but also a bit of ability. Otherwise, others will look down on. Preferably, also funny and interesting, can make the whole family laugh all day long. Such a daughter-in-law, to ensure that no family in-laws do not favor. If you don’t, it’s your parents’ fault, not yours.
Memo: In fact, being a perfect woman is not only about beauty on the outside, but more importantly, about cultivation on the inside. Women in the world of human affairs to be a little smarter. Take the relationship with the in-laws, “filial piety” is necessary to do, that is a person’s moral nature. In addition, as long as it is a little attentive to life, not too capricious to do things according to their own preferences, will be loved by the in-laws. Of course, this is also true for relationships with colleagues and friends. The most important thing to remember is that people need to respect each other.