When a man gets married, a woman gets married, and a girl’s adolescence is so short that she will become a leftover girl if she is not careful. However, finding a husband for a girl is both easy and complicated. It is complicated because marriage is a major event involving two families, so it is an extremely complex system project.
The problem is that this simplicity implies that finding a man to live with can never be a random person from the road. Looks, education, character, hobbies, habits, tutor, cultivation, family, occupation, work, ability, income, housing, people, handling and even sexual desire, are to meet the requirements of the girl has a feeling to do, in other words, the girl only in the right time and the right place to find their favorite husband, however, the premise is in the right frame of mind to do. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
1.Don’t be too demanding, just be basically reliable.
There is a peculiar psychological phenomenon in the real world that the lower the level and the lower the social status of the girl’s family, the higher the standard of the future son-in-law will be set, and the higher the level or the better the family’s economic conditions, the more flexible the standard of the other half’s requirements will be. The standard will be more flexible. Especially families with a beautiful looking girl always dream of meeting a golden tortoise son-in-law, because the society gives them so many opportunities that they have reasons to expect. However, many of them end up with infinite blows.
The more powerful a woman is, the less she thinks too highly of herself and the less she demands of her male partner. If you set a high goal, it means that you are a person without strength, so lower it so that it is in line with the reality. If you’re strong, you don’t set any standards for yourself, so of course you don’t have to lower them.
2. When you give others a chance, you’re actually giving yourself a chance.
Many girls’ social circles are not wide, not to analyze why girls’ social circles have so many limitations, how can they just happen to meet the men they want by their very small social circles alone? Even in the crowd by chance more than a few eyes, and how can I believe that this encounter is fate? The company’s main goal is to provide a good opportunity for the company to meet its customers.
“A thousand glances back in previous lives, only to be replaced by a brush with this life; a thousand brush with previous lives, only to be replaced by an acquaintance in this life; a thousand acquaintances in previous lives, only to be replaced by an acquaintance in this life. ” When a boy takes the initiative to talk to you, in giving others the opportunity to actually give themselves the opportunity to get to know him and then make a judgment. Because he has a good first impression of you and is expected to fall in love with you; but don’t expect him to love you how and what at this time, that is impossible, unless he lies. So putting too many obstacles in his way at this time is really not giving yourself a chance.
3. All people aren’t perfect, there’s no need to be begging each other to be perfect.
All people are imperfect, so there’s no need to be asking men to be perfect. And there is the inferiority of men. Know which are the common problems of men and which can be forgiven. Which cannot be forgiven. The man who hit the woman can not be forgiven, the occasional drunk can be forgiven; eat soft food can not be forgiven, a moment of difficulty but have a strong career can be forgiven; gambling stick whoring friends can not be forgiven, eyes see beautiful women will glance at can be forgiven.
No filial piety and no virtue can be forgiven, and those who do a bad thing occasionally and repent can be forgiven. The waste cannot be forgiven, the prodigal son can be forgiven. The poor quality can not be forgiven, just a little lust can be forgiven. Men which are not lustful. As long as he can be good to you, put you in the first place, he is a good husband. The reason for this is that the man has no sense of responsibility. The man who tells a lie in good faith can be forgiven, but who can’t tell a lie once?
4. You don’t have to be overly smart, and especially not aggressive.
Men looking for a date often don’t care how smart the girl is, nor are they looking for a leader strong enough to control themselves, the vast majority of men like to be friends with smart women, but basically won’t marry an overwhelmingly smart woman as a The vast majority of men like to be friends with smart women, but basically don’t marry an extremely smart woman as a wife, because, men like to be admired by women.
So, please always put yourself in the right position, if you have feelings for him, you should learn to be a small woman, or at least learn how to get along as an equal. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Although you don’t have to show your human intelligence everywhere, you should occasionally make him feel that you are smart and clever, that it is possible to live together, that it is possible to go through life together, that it is possible to have communication in ideas, to have spiritual support, to have care in life, to have family
5. Create opportunities for him to perform and for him to discover you.
Girls tend to show more indifference to a boy the longer they spend with him, in fact, when you meet a man who makes your heart sing, you should show more attention to him, you should give more The most important thing is that you should be able to give him the opportunity to show himself, and you should always give him the opportunity to find out the merits of the girl.
Girls should not show themselves too much, it can seem superficial, and respecting others is actually respecting themselves. The girl for their favorite man must find ways (except bed) to catch him, never too reserved and let him have a sense of distance, silly waiting is useless. From the emotional psychological analysis, men want to women across the mountain, women want to men across the veil. If the girl likes the boy should also give certain hints, with such opportunities for the male side to dare to pursue, otherwise, even if the boy fell in love at first sight, in the premise of not getting the opportunity to return the girl, the boy will often be interested and retreat.
6. Don’t be too greedy and don’t give each other the illusion that you are materialistic.
Earthly people know that women’s primitive nature is very sensual and are very materialistic. But the problem is that you can not always show this primitive nature of women in the process of dating or relationship, after all, poor couples are sad, but the girl should learn and know how to stop in moderation, to understand that the creation of wealth requires the joint efforts of two people, and, as the saying goes: people are not long rich, the family is not long poor. If you have feelings for him and intend to commit your life to you, then you can’t be too materialistic, even if you are renting a room to get married, there is nothing wrong with that.
In this fast-changing society, men with ability and moral cultivation are always potential stocks, and gold will always shine. However, he should be like a man, like a man who can stand on top of the sky, a man who can bring happiness and security to himself. Therefore, girls should never try to get rich by marrying someone because they are afraid of being poor. All good results need to come at the cost of many better ones.