We’ve known each other for three years, and for three years we’ve been uneventful, like a quiet lake, always uneventful. I’ve never been nervous or excited about being in love with someone, and I’ve never tasted what it’s like to love someone so much that it’s thrilling. Even when we met, it was through a friend’s introduction to this very ordinary way. The fact that we were introduced to each other by a friend was a very common way. This kind of blandness and tastelessness often made me regret my own love life.
My good friend Sue has just started a relationship. Sue is beautiful and passionate, and has been receiving notes from boys since junior high school, and has had a platoon of men around her over the years. She said simply: not looking for the feeling. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
I didn’t say anything about it, but I agreed with her.
But Sue finally met the man who made her heart beat faster and made her so nervous she didn’t know what to do. She told me, “When the phone rings, I jump up nervously, afraid to look at the caller ID, afraid it’s him, and hoping it’s him. Before each call, you have to take a deep breath to make sure you don’t lose your voice when you answer the phone. The day before a date with him, I never dare to stay up late for fear of having dark circles under my eyes. I’ve been talking to him like I’m showcasing my talent on stage, using all 18 of my skills, trying to give him the perfect image of being both stylish and elegant, dignified and mischievous, gentle and bold …… I just love him so much!”
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But the love Sue tried so hard to keep was the shortest-lived of all her loves. When Sue saw me her face was pearly: “What did I do wrong? I loved him with all my might, but he actually said I was too good for him, that he was too vulgar for me ……”
When Sue said this, Jan was in the kitchen making me a skin-boosting soup. I wore my usual home clothes, slipped on slippers, vegetated a face, and leaned back on the sofa very casually. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re getting into, and it’s not a matter of whether or not you’re going to be able to breathe, or have your heart beat faster, or be overwhelmed. Only when you do not have the slightest tension in front of him, you can do the real self. And in love, the most important thing is to remain yourself.
Two people have to live together, you are not the actor on the stage, and he is not the audience on the stage.
The first time I saw the film, I thought it was a good idea to take a look at it. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The real love, is not nervous, is that you can burp, fart, pick your ears, runny nose in front of him without fear; the person who really loves you, is the one you can see without washing your face or combing your hair without makeup.