With the development of society and the emancipation of the mind, people’s view of marriage is becoming more and more open, and marriage is no longer based on age, as long as the two sides are in love and the conditions match, even if the age difference between each other is big, it will not be a barrier to marriage.
This kind of “young and old” combination is not favored by most people, as they think they are too different from each other to have a happy and long-lasting marriage, but this “young and old” phenomenon is becoming more and more common, so what is their life like? What is the feeling? Is the marriage happy or not? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into.
Ms. Wang: 39 years old, husband 57 years old
My husband and I have been married for 13 years, and before we got married he was very good to me, considerate and gentle, and he was very attentive, and I saw that he had a successful career, mature and stable, and I thought I would be very happy to marry him.
In the beginning, we had a good relationship, and he was as good to me as ever, but then I slowly found out that he was actually looking for a woman outside. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
I really wanted to divorce him for his righteousness, but he later admitted to me that he was wrong and promised never to do it again. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
A happy life for an old married couple?
They’re both purposeful, and how can you be happy with a purposeful life?
At first, I was just having fun with him, but then I realized I had feelings for her, and finally I left my ex-wife and married her under her coercion.
We had a pretty good life after the wedding, I was responsible for making money and raising a family, and she was responsible for looking good.
The first time I saw the company, I was able to get to the top of the list, and I was able to get to the bottom of the list.
Then the business got bad, I advised her to be careful when spending money, and I limited her monthly allowance to more than 10,000. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
I think our marriage is quite happy, I married him neither for his money nor for his power, we are together because we love each other and have similar interests, after all, we are both married for the second time, so we don’t ask that much of each other, I am single and he has this child.
The main conflict in our family is between me and his son. His son always looks at me badly and speaks badly to me, and although my husband says he does, he will probably scold even harder next time. In his eyes, the stepmother is a big bad person, taking away the love that should belong to him; for me, it’s really hard to be a stepmother, and I have to put up with it for the sake of my loving husband.
So it’s okay for a woman to marry someone older than her age, as long as the two people really love each other, but make sure you think about it, if he takes the kids, will the kids affect your normal life, because it’s really hard to be a stepmother.
People say that young women marry older men basically for their money, but I think my wife does it because she loves me.
My wife and I have been married for 15 years and our kids are now ten years old and we have a really good life. When she married me, I also thought she was doing it for my money, but then I realized I was wrong.
I give him 20,000 a month to live on, and she can do whatever she wants with it, and save it for herself if she can’t spend it. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. I once jokingly said to her, “Actually, you can spend whatever you want, and you can tell me if you run out.” She told me, “I’d rather save it up in case you’re gone one day, how can I raise my kids?” I was shocked to hear that, and felt a little ashamed that I thought she had married me for money.
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After listening to their answers, I have a new understanding of love and marriage. Most people may think that “old married couple” marriages are prone to problems because of the large age difference between the two people, after all, there is a certain age difference between the two people, it is easy to have a generation gap, there will be differences in many things. But in fact, although these problems exist, but not unsolvable big problems, as long as the couple can tolerate each other, mutual understanding, more communication, everything can be solved.
First of all, regardless of the age of the couple combination, the couple is loyal to each other is the primary prerequisite, if one of the spouses betrayed the marriage, then the marriage will face the situation of breaking up.
Second, the marriage union is not about age, but about affection. The first thing is that the couple will be in love with each other and will love each other and have similar interests.
Finally, marriages between couples who have a clear purpose and want what they want will not last long. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
In short, a marriage is like a person drinking water, and you know what you are getting into. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not in a position to get a good deal on a lot of things.