In the old days, people demanded a virtuous wife to be three from four virtues, but in the new era, we need to talk about “eight gains”: to be able to go up to the hall, down to the kitchen, kill the Trojan horse, over the fence, drive a good car, afford a new house, fight The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem.
The old standard for a good wife:
1. From one to the other
Marrying a chicken and following a dog is the primary rule for a good wife, not to slip away at the slightest disobedience. And the change of choice of husband should be tolerated and even welcomed to the maximum extent. When the husband is not around, more able to rest in peace and quiet, in the bitter hope of waiting for the return of her husband’s good life. This aspect of the representative has to be Wang Baochu, willing to marry the commoner son Xue Pinggui, 18 years of hard work in a cold kiln, waiting for the emperor to take the princess’s husband, not only not jealous, but also praise “on behalf of the war girl dress like a fairy”, to “learn a pair of phoenix women to accompany the king before”. The result is that he died in 18 days.
2, abide by women’s morality
The submissiveness to her husband is projected to the family. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Even if the days of the young couple and beautiful, when the mother-in-law is slightly dissatisfied with the time to bear the pain. Liu Lanzhi’s story proves again and again that sometimes abide by the woman’s morality to listen to her mother-in-law, even if the person is dead, will also leave a virtuous wife’s imagery. It’s just that the wailing left by a group of peacocks flying southeast can’t save the tragedy of a life.
3. Faithfulness
If the husband is alive, he cannot cross the thunder pool The first thing you need to do is to be a widow. In the era of adultery death penalty, this standard is not only enough to control the women’s bodies, but also the greatest understanding of the word pagoda in later generations. The body of the cheater, not only instantly dead, but also permanently nailed to the pillar of shame. Pan Jinlian, Du Shiniang since needless to say, after seducing other people’s wives to dazzle, but also killed people by the government to honor Feng Yan, but also history opened to us a big joke.
4, financial prosperity
If men go out to earn money, women should The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Not only does it save men’s energy, but it also makes men’s days blossom. The first time I saw the film, I was able to see it.
After 1949, the heroic mothers who could give birth to children, the iron women who dared to put cold water on their periods, and the Li Shuang Shuang who fought viciously against the word “private” became the representatives of virtuous wives, not loving red clothes and loving arms, and the gender difference between men and women was once again erased. In China, the traditional inertia of a super-stable society, discussing the new era of the standard of a good wife, the thing itself with a few comical, reform and opening up, should have been the concept of a good wife this four unlike extinguished, the results of the general environment forced, good wife not only became the new ethical issues of marriage, but also be spilled to evolve a myriad of new standards.
The new standard of a good wife:
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She should be sweet looking, charming, elegant, know how to make love, but also be able to cook well, and most importantly, she must be a pillow of beauty. It can make the losers find an emotional home, but also let the passersby hit the poles. This is the physical starting point, but also the psychological end point of this inferior still existing male-dominated society. As Liu Cixin polished out in “Three Bodies” Zhuang Yan, she is not only the dream of Luo and the men of the world, but also the best conception of a virtuous wife in modern society. Of course, many people also understand that it is a dream.
2. Smoothing the gap between urban and rural areas
For the Phoenix man, the gap between his old home and The gap between the daughter-in-law’s home is not only a change in status, but also contains a profound environmental dichotomy. A woman who grew up with a toilet sleeping Simmons shopping malls speaking Mandarin, to the mountain village countryside to be able to squat thatched toilets and sleep on the dirt floor to see the street chickens and ducks shitting to listen to the dialect. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
3. Personal financial independence
Modern women, to be able to spend and earn, do not treat men as ATMs. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.
4.4.Pinch the mother-in-law
Modern times are different from ancient times. The majority of them are always a chicken-and-egg stalemate because of petty issues. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.