The same problem, women have a lot more ideas than men, which should be an innate instinct, so as a man, in your guess what your wife’s heart is thinking, then don’t use the guess, or directly ask to understand better, guess the wrong occurrence of unpleasant instead of good.
One, the woman who is happy with herself.
As long as your marriage is not in trouble, then the wife dresses up beautifully for her husband to see, which should not be a question at all, but sometimes the psychology of men is also very strange, the wife is an unkempt yellow face it, the man will feel no face; wife dresses up too beautiful it, but afraid of the wife has two hearts. The company is also afraid that the wife will have second thoughts. If a man has no self-confidence and is small-minded, it’s really scary. If a man does not pull a few words out of his mouth: “wear so beautiful to who look ah”, women will most likely return this sentence: “What do you care”, in fact, many times the woman is indeed the mouth of the heart, the woman will certainly not say is wearing to you to see, because the face of a fool. The woman will definitely have no problem gaslighting you a bit.
Two, always a treasure in your hand.
A woman no matter how successful her career is, how tough she looks, deep down she has a tender heart, no matter if she is a big woman or a small woman, and no matter what age she is, she still desires to be pampered and cared for by her husband as always. Women in the birth of a child, may spend most of their energy on the child, which does not mean that women do not love their husbands, this time if the man because of the inexplicable sense of loss and alienation of the wife really should not be. The old song is well written, until we are too old to go anywhere, you still treat me as a treasure in your heart.
Three, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law issues, just hoping for a little comfort from you.
When there is conflict or unhappiness between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the man knows in his heart that his mother is doing something wrong, but even in private alone when facing his wife or choose to be silent, this situation over time the woman will transfer a lot of grievances to the man’s head. In fact, women do not think that men are so ill-informed, mother-in-law is their husband’s mother, women do not really want men to condemn their mothers what, just hope to get a little comfort from men, coaxing their wives, it is difficult to be unfaithful to their mothers?
Four, it is a blessing to receive your gift.
In fact, on some special meaningful days, it is a very happy thing to receive a gift from your husband, it has nothing to do with whether the gift is expensive or not, it is just the difference between intentional and unintentional. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Five, when you go back to your mother’s house, you are expected to come along.
Every man in pursuit of a woman will go to the future mother-in-law’s house to do hard work to offer attentiveness, that period is also afraid to find an excuse to go to the door, but after marriage, especially after years of marriage, many men are not very willing to go to the mother-in-law’s house, may be no motivation it. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.