In the usual life of the couple, be careful not to do these things that should not be done, between the couple, must protect the self-esteem of both sides, others are more generous also have principles and bottom line.
The three things that hurt the husband the most
Do not give your husband face in front of outsiders
When in love, women like to make, they make heaven and earth to test whether men really love themselves, is in the hot period, the lover’s eyes out of the west, this “made” behavior in love when men may still be tolerated. Can endure, but once into marriage, women are too made, men at first may also first bow down to you admit your fault, over time, good-tempered men will not tolerate, to your respect and away. People’s patience is limited, life is not a TV show, can not afford too much tossing and turning. When couples are in love, they will show their best side in front of each other, hide their shortcomings, but wait until after marriage, the couple is getting closer and closer, revealing more and more shortcomings. At this time, many women like to expose their husbands in front of outsiders to a variety of minor problems, and constantly count their men, which will only make men in front of outsiders can not hold up their heads, and even some people see him and despise him from the bottom of their hearts. “Family scandal can not be publicized”, two people have what to say can not return home behind closed doors to say it, but must be outside to make everyone know, boiling? Even if their husbands are more shortcomings there is no need to go around recklessly, their own family matters behind closed doors to deal with it. What’s more, showing others that your husband’s incompetence does not really solve the problem, not to mention hurting your husband’s self-esteem, but also by others to watch and even talk behind your back, hurting your husband while also degrading yourself, the loss is not worth the gain. No one is perfect, people will have this or that shortcoming. As the old saying goes: a hundred years to repair the same boat, a thousand years to repair the sleep together. Two people can become a couple is already a lifetime of destiny, the marriage wants to last by mutual understanding and tolerance, especially women, it is best not to count their husbands in front of outsiders, do not give men face. People want to face, trees want skin. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Looking up at other people’s husbands and belittling their own
Love to compare is a commonality among women. Some women have nothing to do and start asking questions about their husbands. “, “next door Wang’s family has changed the luxury car, look at you again, how I blindly married you?” You invariably hurt his self-esteem, good-tempered men hear words like this will not stand, he will become more and more self-confident, more and more vulnerable. Since you are married to him, people are also your choice, why do you want to be so demeaning to your own man? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Why bother? Why not teach it well and cultivate it slowly? The thing that men are most afraid of deep down is to be doubted by their own women’s ability, and even their own women are ridiculing him as inferior to others. In reality, there are often a lot of women who love to compare, always saying that their husbands are not as good as other men, and even complaining that their husbands are not as good as their predecessors or one of his friends around them. Such words hurt the man’s self-esteem and will also be very damaging to his confidence, although your original intention is to make him better, please do not often hang on the mouth. No one is perfect, the force can not be reached, encourage him more, good words a three winter warm. The first thing you need to do is to get a good man.
A divorce is a disagreement
What women want or want to express what will not say directly, but through some hints to express to the man, and men are more mute, once you can not guess the woman’s mind, some women will say “you do not love me, or why even I think what you can not guess? Why are you looking towards her and not for me? Since you do not love me, then divorce it!” Or because of the inevitable little things in life fall out, engage in cold war, let the family atmosphere is particularly tense. Which family will not have conflicts, will not be tussling, will not be because of the concept of parenting, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law friction and differences of opinion? Is it really all the fault of the man? Divorce, a new man, a new family will be able to solve these problems? Such words, the man just started to hear the time will be very nervous, rushed over to coax the woman, but a long time, every day can hear the woman because of a little thing “divorce”, the man will be tired, no patience to coax you again. Just like the children in the story “The Wolf”, once you lose the trust of the villagers, even if it is really the wolf, no one is willing to believe you again. The woman who talks about divorce is not responsible, have you ever thought that if the man is really sad and takes the divorce you casually said seriously, the marriage you have the courage to leave? What is not a calm and peaceful solution to the problem? The word divorce is said more, it really will become a reality. Husband and wife are of one mind, their interest is broken gold. Two people all the way to become a couple is really not easy, the storm is there, he wants to make money to support the family, you want to take care of the family, the need is mutual understanding rather than mutual harm. You understand that he is not easy, he will naturally feel for you. Think about why you chose to take his hand back then and make that promise of a lifetime. Marriage is not easy, you may see others’ marriage shiny and bright, it is because you beautify the lives of others. You may not know that you are also being envied by others while you envy them. Two people have the courage to face the difficulties in life together, the relationship between the couple will become more and more harmonious and the family more and more happy. Please actively look for peaceful solutions to things you encounter, and don’t hurt people or yourself!
The most hurtful thing between couples
Betraying your husband,Some women who are married still talk to other guys, and then also seem to be curious about the cheating thing. Until you have sex with other men, this is one of the things that hurt your husband very much.
Save money behind your husband’s back, compared to men who are still more generous. The actual fact is that there are not a lot of men who save their money, and some women do. The actual fact is that you will be able to find out more about the actual situation. The most important thing is to be as faithful as possible to each other.
3, not good to his parents, we all love our parents, even if many people will complain about them, but there is still a lot of love in the heart for them. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Especially our favorite wife. So the above three things or do less. Because everyone is hurt when they meet, no matter what the gender.
The things that hurt husbands the most
1. Counting your husband’s parents in front of others
Women can be capricious, and men who love you will hold you in the palm of their hands, no matter before or after marriage, but don’t think that such capriciousness is the truth that men like you. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the market. Such an approach is not right. You know that after marriage, his parents are also your mom and dad! If you say this, it will make the man feel that you are not the family, because no one will say something wrong about their parents in front of others. Since you have done so, he can only slowly push you out of his heart. Because he doesn’t want him to marry a wife who is actually such a person, a wife who doesn’t even have a home in mind, his heart will be hurt by you.
2. Smiling warmly in front of other men and always pulling a face in front of your husband.
You should know that love is selfish and there is something unique in each person. Among the men who want to occupy the most is the tenderness of a woman, but in you he has never experienced it, and when you are with other men, instead you make him feel the tenderness you never gave him. Since you are so gentle to other men, then your husband’s heart will still belong to you? His heart must have been broken. Even if you do not have that intention, he will suspect that your heart to another man, will also suspect that you cheated. This is not to say that it is your husband’s fault, women should think about what they do, especially between men and women such things. If a man does not love you, how can he be jealous? And how could he care so much about this matter? No matter how kind you are, you are always not intentionally and other people to have an affair, every man will not be able to stand it. In the end, you will also lose trust between you, to your marriage will also have a great impact. It’s all your own doing!
3. No matter what your husband does, he doesn’t get any from you
Men are more respectful, they always expect in their mind that they are trustworthy and that they get the approval of the most important people. As a wife is also the most important person to them, but his not getting any from you, you give him constant count. You always look down on him for what he does. You know what? You have hurt him deeply with this approach. He will feel inferior, will make him feel that you look down on him. And his heart will die to you, can not find to rely on each other, no more warmth. In society, if a woman treats him better, he will be grateful and will treat her more attentively, and finally give up on you and find another dependency that belongs to him.
Three things a wife must not do
No protection for a man’s self-esteem
It is one thing for you to discuss things between husband and wife behind closed doors, it is another for you to make your conflicts public. The company is willing to let you spoil you in private, kneel down or write a review, in front of you he can have no reservations, and will not bother with any dignity. But if you never give him face in front of his family and friends, always put him down to nothing, and he has no tender and considerate words, although his mouth does not say, but the heart will gradually become bored with you. Men’s self-esteem is very strong, do not always rely on him to spoil you carelessly, wantonly hurt his dignity. The man wants to be in front of outsiders, women gentle and worship themselves, if you always fail to do this, I think over time, he may choose to leave you.
No consideration for the family, spend a lot of money
Most women nowadays are pampered by their parents since they were young, and have no sense and planning of their own when it comes to money, they always feel like buying, and as a result, they buy a lot of it and leave it unused. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a lot of money for their own use. If a woman never think about the family, only think about themselves to get more material enjoyment, then men look at it, you will feel that you are not suitable to be a wife. Women should not feel that this is a compromise, this is more of a growth, you have to learn to become a sense of family responsibility and know how to take responsibility for paying the woman. A family and marriage can not be maintained without the support of material conditions, so a smart woman, should know how to spend the money on the edge, should know more for your future considerations. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Thanks to the fact that the man’s personality is very tolerant, even if you are somehow upset, he will patiently coax you until you smile again. But this tolerance actually has a deadline, if you always have no reason to get angry, always rely on his favor to his temper, he will sooner or later begin to feel bored, and no longer willing to coax you. What’s more, after you get married, there are often more things you need to take into account, and he needs to worry about more things every day, as a man, he also needs to carry the pressure of raising a family. So if you are around him, never a word of comfort and encouragement, always venting your negative energy, moving to him to lose his temper, hoping that he endlessly pamper you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.