“Ten years of marriage is no match for one cheating!”
More and more women are lamenting the relentlessness of this era.
There are so many wives who have encountered a mistress. But it was only at the moment when the love interest stood in front of them that they realized: “Marriage, it turns out, has made me so uncompetitive!”
Chinese women have a psychological inertia, after the wedding, all the dust has settled, once elegant and beautiful, at this moment, can call a halt! The woman began to “take off her makeup” after the wedding, and from then on, the beautiful mm became a vulgar woman! So there are always some men, cheating out to justify: “Look at you, which point like to charm the husband look! I am a man, I need a woman who can make me obsessed!”
So, the wives of this era, while shouting “fireproof and anti-snatching”, should really look for the snares of the snares, which are the qualities that charm their own men?
Alone: A woman who can be alone has a mysterious charm! This sense of distance is like a ferment for both sides of the relationship, making people tickled. So many men can only see their lovers for two hours a day, but these two hours are the essence of the time to release all his passion, the reason is that the separation, stimulating his “love sense”. Every man is like this, when the woman is not around, he will think of her good, when the woman is around all the time, he only wants to pick from her! So, as a wife, don’t check in 24 hours a day, when he is not around, arrange your own entertainment measures, when he comes home, see a glowing and happy wife, not moved!
Lovely: The junior is “lustful”, they are highly sensitive to men with style and style, once they fall in love, they will not hesitate to express their admiration to him. But the wives, but rarely can do this. Even if the wife has love, but also neglected to express, even if you want to express, but also always subtle words, they will say “old married couple, so meat and potatoes why”! Don’t say that. To the husband, both the mouth to praise him, but also to show the desire to “eat him”, from a psychological point of view, the type of woman men like most, is the style and desire to flourish, a chaste lady-like conservative wife, will only make the husband feel defeated. The most important thing is that the company has a lot of people who are interested in it.
Elegance: Men who cheat love to say, “The mistress is so elegant, as a man, I can not restrain myself from loving”. The woman’s elegance is very important. You can not be beautiful, but you can cultivate a graceful temperament. Just like the male friends around, talking about the ideal standard of women in the heart, or coincidentally, “to have the grace of Maggie Cheung”. Men are actually more afraid of beauty than women become vulgar women, because he loved the woman, he hopes she can always have a graceful posture. Women should pay more attention to fashion trends, pay attention to diet to maintain the body, take out two hours a day to read and listen to music. Or the saying: beautiful may be born, but elegance can be cultivated later. Don’t give up the pursuit of elegance, which is the ultimate solution for women to defend their marriage.