Nowadays, the young sister of the 90s is rampant, and many young talents choose to be young and beautiful and know how to be social, so the sister of the 80s should be alerted not to be a leftover woman anymore!
Characteristics of Post-80s Leftover Women:
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Leftover women in the post-80s are basically with a bachelor’s degree or higher, having had good family education and cultural literacy. Doing things nimbly, do people dry, in the work are stable and accurate role. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
2, like home, have a number of female confidantes
Weekend at home The most important thing is to spend the day wandering around in your room in your pajamas, watching TV, surfing the Internet, and making yourself a small meal to pass the day. The company’s main goal is to provide a good service to its customers.
3, Dare to think, dare to do, dare to be crazy
Although always The leftover women, who grew up as post-80s from the reform and opening up, are the generation with individuality. A few of them often come up with new and strange ideas, such as going to learn pole dancing or running out on a trip together in the middle of Chinese New Year.
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Leftover women should be wary! The top ten commandments for marrying yourself off
The first one:
Don’t hold yourself to high and strict standards. The perfect man in this world is as long extinct as the dinosaurs, and perhaps never existed, so look at the essence of the good and develop it first.
The second rule:
Don’t give yourself a chance and don’t believe in love exists. Never reject love in your heart, so that even if a good man appears next to you, you will not pay attention to him, at least give each other a chance, so that you are also giving yourself a chance, and maybe there will be a good result?
Third:
Don’t beat everyone to death with one rod.
Don’t beat everyone to death. Don’t really believe in the phrase “no man is a good thing”, sometimes too much trust in this phrase, but it becomes a stumbling block to find true love.
Article 4:
Don’t be a big woman, put yourself in the right position. position and equal up on both sides. Don’t think that because you have a high income, a good image, and are educated, you think people are inferior to you and are condescending everywhere, but all individuals have self-esteem, not to mention men.
Article 5:
Don’t fall in love with a man who has a family, knowing that The result is often a burial in the tiger’s mouth. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Article 6:
Don’t fall in love with a younger man, he will The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the newest version of the book. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.
No. 7:
Don’t be greedy, especially not by money. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Article 8:
Don’t tell your girlfriends about your personal feelings The reason is that women have longer tongues than men. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you’re doing.
Number 9:
Don’t just wait for the pie to fall out of the sky. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Article 10:
Don’t confess your relationship history to a man, whether it’s Old love and new love, or red herrings, will enable men to find an excuse to betray you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Leftover women are wary of love hunger
Hunger affects one’s judgment, there is no doubt about it.
The most obvious example is that people tend to spend very different amounts of money when they go to the supermarket when they are full than when they are hungry. When you go to the supermarket when you are hungry, you will see any food with a glow in your eyes, like reuniting with a long-lost relative, and once you grab it, you will not let go. And when you’re full, you’re pushing a cart, walking calmly through the shelves, seeing food, generally have to gracefully look around a bit, most of the time also throw it back to the shelves. Later, I learned that there is a disease called “love hunger”. I think the hunger and thirst are the same, regardless of whether the definite word in front of it is love or not.
The biggest clinical manifestation of love hunger is the impatience to stuff whatever “food” falls into one’s hands into one’s car basket, and the conviction that it is the food one wants most, no matter how hard it is to eat. No matter how difficult the food is to eat, they are convinced that it is what they want to eat most, and no matter how much it costs, they must buy it to go home. In short, overwhelmed by hunger.
Remember Cui Jian used to say in an interview that he generally only fell in love with girls under 27 because girls over 27 were always too insecure and always let that sense of crisis ruin the rest of the fun of the relationship. This statement is full of sexism and ageism, but I admit, he has his reasons. He doesn’t want to be a piece of plaster, pressed against a love-starved wound that won’t hold up once pressed.
There’s an overused phrase in the English-speaking world called, “IloveyounotbecauseIneedyou,butbecauseIwantyou. “Translated into Chinese, “I love you not because I need you, but because I want you.” The difference between “need” and “want” is the difference between treating the other person as a tool or a subject. If a woman marries someone because of money, she is treating him as a wallet, a tool of sorts. Similarly, if a woman marries someone because of her emotional hunger, she is treating him as anointed, another kind of tool. True love, it is said, is not because of what the other person can bring you, but because you just appreciate him, the person he is.
For the love-starved person herself, finding her anointing may not be a good thing either. Hunger is a kind of blindness. The so-called hunger is what it says. After you have stuffed yourself with the bun apple that you fished in your hand, after being mostly full, you may suddenly find that you actually do not love these bun apples, in fact, these bun apples are actually not delicious. What to do? Throw the rest in the garbage? But wasting food lacks basic civic-mindedness.
So it’s important to have patience as you push your shopping cart through the supermarket of love, even when you’re hungry. Patience is a virtue whose basic truth is that your hunger should not be a reason to let a moldy bun spoil your appetite, nor should it be a reason for you to waste a good bun. Many times, there is a thrill within the impulse, and other times, staying away is an ethic.