Hello! I was born in 85 and I met a girl a year ago, she is 89. It’s a coincidence that I never add random people on chat tools, and I added a random person that day, and it was her.
I have always treated her like a sister during our relationship, and I don’t even think twice about staying in the same room when we go out together, not because I’m incompetent, but because I really treat her like family.
I’m a foreigner, and I can’t say that I’ve been in Beijing for a few years, but I’ve always needed someone to talk to, and she’s always been there in time. The next day, her signature said “sister-in-law is coming, I should go”, so I completely understand that this girl likes me.
Then it became clear that she wanted to wait for me for the rest of my life, even if I was a rock, she wanted to make me hot, but my girlfriend wasn’t around, I couldn’t step on two boats, that wouldn’t be fair to either of them. So I’ve always refused to be with her.
During this period, my girlfriend, who had been waiting for me for four years, left me because we had been together for less than 200 days in the past four years, and the phone calls were nothing but “Have you eaten?
The reason why my girlfriend left me after four years of being together is less than 200 days.
The reason why my girlfriend left me was because we had been together for less than 200 days in the past four years.
I’m very mute about relationships, I don’t know how to make girls happy, and I’ve been focusing on my career, so my girlfriend didn’t feel happy with me, so I didn’t stay, but I’ve been friends with this girl, and I didn’t cross the line.
At the beginning of November last year, the girl asked me out, and after we met, we started to make trouble, because she wanted to give me her first time, and she had said that before, but I didn’t do that, and after half a night of trouble, we went to a hotel, and after that she asked me what to do if I got pregnant, and I said I would be responsible and would marry her.
She is very smart, very strong, just loves to fight with herself at times, very knowledgeable, we have endless conversations, I trust her more than I trust myself.
But then she said she wanted to leave me, and my heart really hurt at that time, and my heart was as hard as a big stone, and I was strong, and I was successful in my career in the eyes of my friends, and I was sincere, and I could see people get benefits, and I was careful, and I thought I had found my happiness in my life, but she was with another person after she gave me her first time, and did I thought I had found happiness in my life, but after giving me my first time she was with another person, doing something she shouldn’t have done, that man had a family.
I was doing intelligence work in the agency, but I trusted her and didn’t take any measures against her, but she lied to me for so long, and during the time she was with that man, she continued to be by my side and said she wouldn’t give up, and I didn’t know this until I asked repeatedly when she said she was leaving, and I said come back to me, no matter what, I’ll wait where I am, as long as she could come back, and she agreed.
But just a few days ago, she said she was at home helping her mom and dad decorate their home, and said she knew where I was because her phone had GPS location, and I was spied on by her for doing intelligence, huh? I will use the probe to see where she is in the end, the result, she and the man in Huairou play it, later I asked her she also admitted, she obviously play outside why and I said at home it, to love on deep love, to not love immediately give up, I really do not understand, I am now very confused, I know I do not do well enough, but I said, I may not do the best, but I am the most attentive, I have been doing, but she I don’t know what I should do, a woman who said she would wait for me for the rest of my life, turned around and got hooked up with someone else in just a few months, and is hanging on to me like this, I don’t understand, I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to let go, so please guide me.
Reply:
Hello, actually not only she is cheating on you, even you yourself are cheating on yourself. Please ask yourself, is it really true that you are not doing enough? There are certain reasons why she wants to leave you, but it’s not one person’s fault. It is her first to say to leave, and you have been struggling to stay, and then she betrayed you is also unavoidable thing, because her heart is not in your place, even if you do a good job is also in vain. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
It’s fine if you don’t want to leave her, but you also have to consider if they want to leave you. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Love is a matter of two people only you a result of the effort how can be as satisfactory as possible? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
It’s hard to regain a cheater’s heart because she was with you and got bored before playing the splits, so it’s hard to get her to have new expectations of you again. What you need to do at the moment is not to spend a lot of time thinking about how to keep him, but rather you need to correct your own attitude towards love. You need to know that if she was really willing to stay with you, she would not have lied to you frequently or cheated on someone else to replace you. So in the road of love without her, you should walk your own path, as long as you are moving forward, always see a different landscape. Finally, I wish you happiness.