Some pretentious people will say: It’s a matter of minutes to get someone to like me. On a psychological level, getting someone to like you is just a matter of half a minute. The first time you meet, the key to getting each other’s approval is the first 30 seconds, whether you can conquer a person, depending on the meeting half a minute. Everyone can’t overcome preconceived stereotypes, and since that’s the case, it’s time to be tactful when meeting someone for the first time.
Time.
If you’re really sincere about making a deal, be sure to arrive a little bit before the other person for the first meeting. A person who arrives at a date before himself is generally not annoying, both as a sign of respect for the other person and to give him the most preliminary bit of psychological pressure: “He arrived before me, he is more important than me, so I am a little embarrassed.” As it turns out, to make up for the little bit of guilt you feel, the next thing you ask, he’ll be more likely to say yes.
Sighting.
Scientific reasoning says that when people look at each other, the person who averts his or her eyes first is the stronger person.
People have this psychological inertia: a focused look represents a sense of psychological identity, and a sudden averting of the eyes means interrupting that identity. The other person immediately feels a sense of psychological oppression and thinks, “Is he not interested in what I have to say anymore?”
So the smart ones are always good at using the line of sight to control the situation. If he wants to disrupt the other side, he will move his line of sight at times before the other side to put pressure on the other side. If he wants to feign pity in exchange for sympathy, it has been the other side of the line of sight does not waver. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Smile.
Smiling is really important. Some people smile beautifully, but they don’t smile in a way that screams peace of mind. When you first meet someone, smile openly, smile transparently and smile brightly. To not make people feel a sense of psychological burden. To make the other party feel that you do not have too many demands on him. Only then can he put his heart down and accept you.
Really, just a few points. Is that right?
It really only takes half a minute to get people to like you.