I belong to an earlier group of post-80s. The first time I saw the film, I was able to see it. My mother is a college teacher, my father is a civil servant, the family income is stable, parents also have stable feelings. Because my mother is a good family man, although not particularly rich, the days are also considered more abundant, belong to never worry about salt and oil kind of family. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
But I don’t think of myself as a spoiled “sassy princess” or “sassy girlfriend. I rarely lose my temper, I seldom speak loudly, I’m just not talking when I’m upset; I don’t have high requirements for love and marriage, I just need to match my physical appearance, job income and family background. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
After graduating from college, with the help of my parents, I joined an accounting firm and got my own income and a love of my own. My first love boyfriend works in another bigger accounting firm. He also belongs to the post-80s, dating less than a year we broke up, because I think he was too inconsiderate. For example, once we had dinner together, he said to go eat hot pot, I did not want to eat hot pot that day, so I agreed to be very reluctant. But he didn’t pay any attention, and he went to the hot pot restaurant on his own, so I had to go with him.
On the way, I politely said, “I’m a little hot these days, look, I’m getting pimples on my face!” He stopped to look closely at the pimples on my forehead, and I thought he would say, “Then let’s not eat hot pot, let’s eat Western food instead.” Then he patted my face and said, “It’s okay, I don’t mind you looking bad!” I was so disappointed that I dragged my feet and followed him into the hot pot restaurant. When I sat down at the table, I didn’t move my chopsticks at all and was in a very low mood. And he never understood why I was upset, and at first asked a few questions, “What’s wrong with you?” “Are you tired?” Later, he just ignored me and ate his food. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
Soon I had a second boyfriend, my current fiancé, who was a software developer for a company three years older than me, very mature and talented, with a good job and correspondingly good income, and treated me quite well. I should be very happy with him, and in the third year after we met, our love came to the point of talking about marriage.
Just last spring, my boyfriend asked me to get married, seeing that we were not too young and both parents wanted us to get married sooner. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
This gave us most of the year to prepare. As early as when I graduated from college, my parents had bought a new house to move into, and the house I used to live in was not sold, it was prepared for me, the figure was in the city for easy access. The three room old house, decorated out or quite good. The boyfriend’s parents bore the cost of renovation and the purchase of appliances. In order to prepare for marriage, from the second half of last year, I only do some daily work in the unit, take the basic salary, there is a larger extra income projects are let others to do, the figure is the time to spare. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Everything seemed to be going very well, but that summer, I started to feel inexplicably depressed, watching my father busy decorating the new house and my mother doing the math for all the furniture and appliances, while my boyfriend was going about his business as usual, as if the wedding was all about my family.
The first time I saw the new house, I was able to get a new one.
My time is better, and he has less time for me. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a good deal on your own, and you’ll be able to get a good deal on your own. He of course explained that this is not the case, said he is now working hard career is for our upcoming small family, his income is high I can not enjoy some more? And also said that this division of labor is the most reasonable, the male is the main female is the main inside. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
But after a while, I still felt lost and depressed. One day I’m going to do a Tang suit, which is the second set of clothing used in the wedding, after changing out of the white wedding dress, is a big red Tang suit, he took off his suit to change into a Tang suit. I’ve already booked a ready-to-wear store and arranged for him to come out of work after lunch that day and we’ll go together to pick out the fabric to order and get measured at the same time.
And he forgot all about it. The first time I called him on his cell phone, he remembered. The result is that he can’t come, saying he has an appointment to wait for a customer, and he can only come out after the customer comes to finish the matter. I waited for him for so long, but he had to wait for a client? I was so angry that I turned around and left, and stopped taking his calls all afternoon.
This evening when he came back from work and saw me still angry, he sat in silence for a while and said, “You’ve got a bad temper this time. This matter in the past, you will not always angry.” I said tit-for-tat, “You’ve gotten thick-headed this time, and this would never have happened before.”
I thought to myself, “The only time a man has a woman on his mind is when he hasn’t caught up with her. He doesn’t take you seriously when he catches up. The actual fact is that these small unpleasantnesses don’t affect our relationship, but I’m always in the mood. He noticed and asked me what was on my mind. I said no, everything was fine. What can I say? The first thing I did was to ask him if he had any idea what he was feeling.
Last year, at the end of November, it was very cold. One day he said to me, “This is the right season to go to Hainan, do you want to go? There is an opportunity – “It turns out that a bank vegetation and he has business dealings, he compiled a particularly ideal software for them, in order to thank him, this bank travel vacation group to Hainan, he left a place for him. But he couldn’t get away those days, so he asked for me to enjoy this free trip, and the other side agreed.
He said sincerely, “Forgive me for not being able to accompany you. You’ve been in a bad mood for a while, go out and have fun on your own.”
I thought about it for a while and really needed to adjust my mind, otherwise how could I be his bride? So agreed.
He gave me the most complete travel kit, including a nifty digital camera and a laptop the size of a magazine. But when it came to the day of departure, he was nervous about even giving me the time to see me off. He drove me to the departure point in advance and left in a hurry before the tour group from the bank side arrived, leaving me waiting alone for a group that didn’t know a single person. I worried that this trip wouldn’t be too lonely, right?
A Mercedes van drove up and eight or nine excited men and women jumped out of it, fussing with each other to get their luggage. A very athletic man got out of the car and looked around, found me after, quickly walked over: “You are Ni Na, right? My name is Xiao Liang. You’re going to Hainan with us!” The company’s newest product is a new product that will be available in the marketplace.
This journey travels Xiao Liang to take great care of me, except for me, they are all colleagues in the unit, very familiar with each other, I am an outsider, he was afraid of leaving me out, willing to leave his colleagues, often accompany me, we are almost inseparable.
Was Xiao Liang particularly understanding, or was it that I was depressed and needed to talk to someone? Anyway, soon I became dependent on Xiao Liang, and if he didn’t walk in front of and behind me, I must have stopped and waited. He soon became my full time escort and full-time photographer, checking into the hotel, my luggage is definitely he took off the car for me to the room; when eating, he added soup and held food for me. The other people started to make fun of us too.
I remember on the last day of this vacation trip, the schedule was to spend an afternoon at the beach in Sanya Bay. The blue sky and white clouds, clear water, soft and delicate beach is intoxicating, we jumped on the beach treading water and waves, and played beach volleyball for a while, tired of playing, I fell asleep on a lounge chair. When I woke up, I found an extra jacket on my body, and there was no one else around, only Xiao Liang sitting next to me. I asked where are the others? He said they all went down to the sea with the guide to go surfing, I asked why you did not go? He said I was with you.
I was touched, yes, I needed company so much. Xiao Liang’s meticulous consideration makes my heart feel very warm, I think, even if it is a man in, may be to me after covering a jacket, also followed by the sea to go crazy. I didn’t say anything, leaned my head gently on Xiao Liang’s shoulder, and felt him move gently.
I didn’t expect to sit like this in silence for a while when he suddenly turned red and stammered, “You know, I’m with you these days to take care of you because I’ve been entrusted by your boyfriend.” I raised my head at once: “What did you say?” He looked me in the eye and nodded affirmatively, “He and I are particularly good buddies, and before he left, he repeatedly instructed me to take good care of you these days!”
After hearing Xiao Liang’s words, I was hit by a thunderstorm. The reason why he is good to me is because he accepted the commission of his boyfriend? The actual fact is that he’s been careful and considerate, but he is completing the task that his boyfriend gave him? The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
I remember I was a bit frantic and held my head hard. Xiao Liang saw me like this, and quickly hugged my shoulders, said he began to really care about me with the completion of the task, but then it was willingly, I pushed him away, not to listen to his explanation …… until we sat on the return flight, I never said a word to him. When I left the port, Xiao Liang took my luggage as usual and saw that my boyfriend was picking me up at the exit, so I handed him my luggage, and the two of them tapped each other on the shoulder in a heartfelt way, and I pretended not to see anything.
When I got home, I questioned why my boyfriend had put an “undercover” agent next to me, and he laughed and said, “What undercover agent? That’s the escort I sent!” He also asked me if Xiao Liang had taken special care of me. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the market.
From then on, I was in turmoil, wondering why I was still attracted to another attentive and considerate guy when I was a bride-to-be. I looked at my own feelings and wondered if I didn’t love my boyfriend enough, and if so, wouldn’t marrying him be a disservice to myself and to him?
So I had to find someone to talk to and get my emotions in order. I was going to be a bride in a month or so, and I didn’t want to carry emotional baggage and walk down the aisle heavy.
[Listening Handbook]
Men are from Mars, women are from Venus.
Ni Na repeatedly confessed that she is not a “sassy princess” and does not appreciate “sassy girlfriends”. The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of services to its customers. But underneath her unarmed appearance, her inner temperament is very strict and obstinate. Her requirements for a love interest are neither harsh nor difficult, just considerate and caring, but there is a great deal of flexibility here. For most people, general warmth is all that is required, but not for Ni Na. She doesn’t ask for it, but the man must do it.
I noticed a past incident with her ex-boyfriend where she couldn’t eat hot pot because she had acne, but instead of saying it directly, she wanted him to give it up voluntarily, “What’s in my heart, doesn’t he know? ” I’m sure that yes, he doesn’t know. The difference between men and women is so great that “one is from Mars, one is from Venus”, you think he should know, that’s just what you think, you think he should know and he doesn’t, you sulk because of it, he will find it inexplicable.
On the other hand, Ni Na’s fiancé is hard-working and unwilling to slacken at all in his career, but misses the point that the bride to be is most delicate and can’t afford a little aggravation. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
It’s true that men are by nature sloppy and cannot be as attentive as women; men can force themselves to be attentive during the extraordinary period of pursuing a girl. But do not forget that this is the very period. The reason why women often feel that “once married he has changed” is not the same as he does not love you or does not value you. He can not always be in a state of tension against his nature ah. The world of two people should be at its most relaxed and comfortable for each other.
We saw Ni Na’s fiancé make a “risky move” by sending his iron buddy to do the careful escorting that he couldn’t do himself. The good thing is that this buddy is really “iron”, absolutely dedicated and not to cross the thunderbolt step, good thing is that Ni Na is also just “premarital syndrome” a moment caused by the emotional emptiness and confusion, meet a cup of warm heart and lung soup medicine, end up on a drink, the disease is healed, really The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem.