The first time in SIS to post a topic, if there are shortcomings, please bear with me. I will also cherish my virgin post!
What I’m about to say happened to me when I was very young, before I started kindergarten, (about 6 years old)
When I was young, I was ignorant about sex, but I was always a little curious about what I didn’t know, and that’s how I came to know that “male sexuality is impossible”. It was probably that summer (because the floor was covered with a cooler), I was playing with my neighbor girl Xiao Hong (a pseudonym, the same age as me) at my house, the adults at home went to work, grandparents seem to have gone to the fields, I don’t know how to talk about the bottom of the man and woman can be connected together (how specific I also forget almost, after all, so long ago), I said, “Do you want us to try? I said, “Do you want us to try? Little red first said no, then I rubbed my mouth, agreed to try with me.
Then the two of us lay down on the cooler, the pants are down to the knees, you can start intimate contact as heard in some occasions. (The funny thing is that we then rolled up the mat and put the two of us inside the bag, which I still can’t figure out how to do that)
What I have heard is to put the penis into the place where the woman peed, so I asked Siu Hong to open the pee place, I put the penis in.
Did it go in or not? Definitely not! At that time did not know what an erection is! I was afraid that I would not be able to open it completely, so I asked her to open the 2 labia, but the end result was the same, it did not go in!
Lies! This was my first feeling about what those adults said at that time!
Since that time, for our side of the loach drilling mussels (sex metaphor), is completely negative, cheating ah! I have tried it myself!
…… Then after I came up to junior high school, at an uncle’s house, I accidentally turned to a book translated from abroad, called “Dialogue in the Marriage Bed”, which is a sexual guide for newlyweds, with a more objective description. The vagina, 1) is a channel for menstruation, 2) is a channel for the penis during intercourse, and 3) is a channel for pregnant women to give birth, which made me realize that sex can really happen between men and women.
This is the misconception that happened to me and has been with me for 6 or 7 years. But now think about it is also quite funny, especially to take out and share with you.