As the saying goes, happiness is something you have to earn, but when faced with the person you love but don’t know how to break the strange atmosphere, do you just watch the good fortune slip away every time? The right conversation starter does not let your initiative to scare each other away, but can naturally promote your relationship, as long as you know each other, open up the topic, the rest depends on your destiny. The first step in the pursuit of happiness is to be brave for your own sake.
Clever pickup tips:
1. Asking for help
Of course this kind of help should be without any interest, for example, borrowing money or something is absolutely not suitable. You can prepare a bottle of mineral water, and then ask him to help you open the lid, one can show your soft side, but also let him show their manhood. This small thing, in general, men will not refuse, let alone the proposed is a soft woman. Of course opening the lid is not your ultimate goal, so you must immediately thank him for his help, praise him for his kindness, good heart, willing to help others, time allows, you can also continue to chat to learn more about each other, when you have been chatting hot, I believe that even if you do not ask each other’s contact information, he will also take the initiative to ask for your contact information. If you feel that he is in a hurry, remember not to delay each other’s time, you can directly express the hope to leave each other contact way, free to talk again, make a friend and so on. The man will not refuse a woman’s gesture of affection in general.
2. Borrow a cell phone
Pretend you forgot your cell phone and then Ask him to borrow a cell phone, but be sure to act very eagerly, pretending that you have something important to do and need to contact someone else, or that you have a meeting with a friend but can’t find anyone, that you forgot your cell phone and are very anxious, etc. Most people will be happy to provide help, especially girls open up, always embarrassed to refuse, afterwards you can thank him in person, more nice words, perhaps he is also there waiting for friends, then this free time, you can chat more la. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
3. Find a topic near you
If you are thick-skinned and think you have a good mouth The best way to start a conversation is to talk about things on his body, such as his clothes, shoes, glasses, accessories, etc. Express your love for one of the items on his body directly, praise his taste, ask where to buy them, etc. Believe that your taste can definitely lower people’s defenses. And he will also be very happy that you have the same taste as he does, so that you have a good feeling about you. Then your conversation can begin to be more broad. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re looking for.
4. Ask questions
Whether it’s asking for directions or asking for the time, what you ask is not the point. The question is not the point, as long as the situation is right at the moment, asking questions is a good way to open up the conversation, unless the other party is in a hurry, then most will be happy to give you an answer. It is very important that you don’t just ask the person, “Where and how do I get there?” Then immediately say, “Let’s be friends, okay?” It’s a good idea to ask the person if they’re going that way, if it’s convenient for them to take you there, or if it’s about how long it takes to get there, etc. Try to lengthen the conversation between you, and you’ll have a better chance of success.