At the party, he was surrounded by beautiful women, and his buddies were laughing at each other and eating tofu. However, when someone told her a dirty story and made her blush, he immediately stood up his eyebrows and said, “Don’t bully her, she’s my sister.”
One of the ambiguous relationships: brother sister (sister brother)
Ambiguity index: ****
Cleanliness index: ****
Signature slogan:
“So-and-so is my brother, we are relatives.”
“She’s 10 years younger than me, little sister ……”
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Classic Shot:
1. Every day at noon, at the reception desk of the company he works for, a small young woman appears, smiling and carrying a few lunch boxes, saying, “Brother ah …… try the egg fried rice I made today, how is it?” Then smilingly watch him finish eating, and then help him clean up, not forgetting to give him carefully wipe away the rice grains on his chin. He said heartily, “I don’t know what’s going on in your little head!”
2. At the party, he was surrounded by beautiful women, and his buddies were laughing at each other and eating tofu. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
3. She dresses fashionably, but a young guy often appears around her, sweetly calling her sister. In fact, there is no blood relationship at all. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
Relationship analysis:
For the “brother”, the existence of the little sister is to give him the desire to protect her, when the male heroism needs to be poured out, when he feels helpless and lonely. The “little sister” of the good and soft than the general tenderness and consideration often make him feel more comfortable, and her worship of him, but also let him feel extra confident, just to meet the man’s desire for some kind of spiritual conquest. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
For the “sister,” before there was a perfect boyfriend, the “brother” was a very sweet little heel who had the double benefit of being a man and a boy. When she is in trouble, he will not betray his vows, and when she is maternal, he becomes a cute and innocent “little thing”. For the “brother”, the “sister” is often a trustworthy, feminine woman.
Potential Crisis:
In real life, most “affectionate” relationships tend to have a hard time evolving into true love relationships. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
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Ambiguous relationship No. 2: Red-face Blue-face
Ambiguous index: *****
Clean index:*
Signature slogan:
“A woman’s heart and body can be separated between us, just one word of purity.”
“Is there no pure friendship between men and women? That’s only because you haven’t found a confidante.”
“He is my soulmate, we know each other but never possess.”
Classic shots:
1. After every fight with his wife, he would come out of the door, run to her house and cry a lot, and afterwards he would say, “Why is it that I love someone other than you? Why can’t my wife be as understanding as you are?” She replied, “If your wife could do what I do, she wouldn’t be your wife.”
2. After being criticized by her boss, she was so confused that her girlfriend wouldn’t even ask her to go shopping for a break, and she had to call him to complain about it. When she encounters some major choices, she will also look for him to discuss, feeling very common language. She said, “My boyfriend knows my body best, and you are the confidant who knows my heart best.”
Relationship Analysis:
When they are bored, when they encounter various life problems, they become “mutually supportive” fish, and once the tide returns, they each swim away. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. In a way, this kind of relationship between men and women is mostly a love affair on a spiritual level, and it can be said that compared to a lover’s relationship, they only lack physical communication.
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Potential Crisis:
Even the most innocent red-face blue-face confidant, once one of the lovers is not open enough to understand, it is easy to be misunderstood as a third party; secondly, after all, it is a man and a woman, once the “wine meets the confidant a thousand glasses less “The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Ambiguous relationship No. 3: Internet lover
Ambiguous index: *****
Clean index:**
Signature slogan:
“I love you, even if I never see you. I can feel everything about you and not see you, it’s not a problem.”
“We love each other in a world of bits, and this love can’t survive without the internet.”
Classic shots:
1. He comes home every day to eat his wife’s homemade meals, and then while she’s washing in the kitchen, he hears the sound of keyboard tapping coming from the room. The woman who doesn’t have to take care of her life and everything for him, is on that side of the internet mindfully dividing her husband’s affection. And she remains quietly guarding the shell of the man she married who has lost his soul.
2. “Honey, send you 999 roses.”
“Really?”
An email with a picture of a rose arrived in her mailbox.
“Let me kiss you ……”
“Mmm, I can feel it, your warm, wet lips …… “
“Well, I’ve brushed your teeth especially for you.”
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Relationship Insights:
On the Internet, they “fell in love” and even got married, two strangers who had never met, and the word game was a source of dependence and affection for each other. They are addicted to it, and the internet makes them look “perfect”.
Unlike the average online relationship, these online lovers, most of whom don’t meet in person, rely on their imagination to create all sorts of romance and hypotheticals.
Unlike real-life love, online lovers cost very little and are not subject to moral pressure.
Potential crisis:
Because all you love each other for is your imagination and the maze of words you create. So what if, in case of a meeting, the consequences are hard to imagine. The first thing you need to do is to find out that the one across the street is the same sex …… For married men and women, a platonic affair is fine, but if you don’t keep your computer well, it can spill over into your real-life relationship as well.
Ambiguous relationship four: the opposite sex live together
Ambiguous index: ***
Clean index: ***
Signature slogan:
“One person live, the burden is too heavy, and I am afraid of the dark, a boy, or take care of. ”
“She’s important for when you don’t know what else to eat besides instant noodles every month.”
“His importance is reflected in every time a fuse is blown and the gas tank is out of gas ……”
Classic shots:
1. He calls his room Boys’ dormitory, she calls her room the girls’ dormitory, and the others are communal. When the sewer is broken, even though he is engrossed in video games, he arrives at the first call. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
2. We’re having a party at night, and she talked to him and said, “Maybe there are more friends, and I can’t fit that many people in my house, so can you make some room for me?” He agreed and said, “Next time just make me something delicious, I’ll automatically disappear on the day of the party, send me a text message when the party is over ……”
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Relationship Insights:
Male/female co-housing brings more of a sense of fun, trust, and relaxation than female/female co-housing. The new tenant relationship is full of another sense of fun, in the same sense of “men and women working together, not tired” in the office.
Surveys have shown that most women who share a room with the opposite sex believe that men don’t get involved with women, and don’t care about the size of the room, the orientation, or the details of who uses the bathroom more or less.
Real men and women sharing a room respect each other, keep their distance, and can help each other. For both sides, they experience most of the advantages of the opposite sex, and avoid the hassle of mutual suspicion, exclusivity and calculating.
Potential crisis:
The house itself is already very ambiguous, and singles sharing a room, even if it’s not a room, are already very, very close. People who come home tend to reduce themselves to their true selves, casual, free, loose, and even ugly details of their lives are exposed to each other, although there are certainly those who develop love for each other because of their very close lifestyles, but after all, they are still a pair of men and women with distance.
The opposite sex in a shared house can easily develop into a couple, evolving from sharing to cohabitation. But if you seek to share a house because of a moment of blindness, or with the mindset of solving personal problems, you risk being used by people with ulterior motives, hurting your feelings and messing up your life.
Ambiguous Relationship No. 5: Sexual Partners
Ambiguity Index: *****
Cleanliness Index:*
Signature Slogan: “Just need companionship not love each other.”
“There are many solutions to the emptiness of the mind, but the hunger of the body, there is nothing I can do about it, so I need sexual partners.”
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Classic Shot:
1. Near the end of the day on Friday, her phone rang and his voice rang out, “Is this weekend convenient for you?” She thought about it, “I’ll think about it, oh no, I have a friend coming over from Guangzhou to see me, I’m afraid you can’t make it over.” He was very dry, smiled and said, “Well, have a good weekend and call me if you miss me.”
2. Every regular time, he would arrive as scheduled, pick her up from work for dinner, then go to his apartment or her dorm, spend the night, and then say goodbye. She doesn’t even know anything about his work, the only thing she can be sure of is that he’s a good sex partner.
Relationship Insights:
Whyte Mills says in Intimate Entanglements, “A characteristic of modern man is the desire, like a search for riches, for unacknowledged intimate privations to appear and stop at the right time.”
Today’s sexual partners have more in their meanings than just a physical solution to a physical problem, but more of a comfort to themselves and an escape from reality. After all, they are all people who are afraid of being lonely and even more afraid of others knowing they are lonely. We need love, and we can’t live without sex. Most of the time, sex and love are just as important. With a sexual partner, at least you have the warmth of your body to forget the loneliness of your mind for a while.
Potential crisis:
Russell has already said it all: “Love renews our whole being, as the rains after a great drought do for the plants. The act of sex without love has no such power at all. After a moment of pleasure, what remains is weariness, disgust, and a sense of the emptiness of life.”
Ambiguous relationship #6: Part-time parent (driver, bodyguard, nanny ……)
Ambiguity index: ****
Cleanliness index:**
Signature slogan: “Anyway, he has a car and just happens to drop me off on the way.”
“It’s never a normal thing for a man to invite a woman to dinner, he’s willing to invite, I’m willing to eat, what are others looking at!”
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Classic shots:
1. He has an Audi; he is in a high position in a big company; he has girlfriends who love each other. I don’t remember how I met him. Anyway, it seems that after he took the initiative to drive her home one night, it became his habit to pick her up and drop her off every day since he knew that each other’s company was on a line.
2. Every time she gets off work, if her boyfriend is not available, she yells out in the office, “Who’s buying me dinner today?” Then the spearhead was aimed at one of the male colleagues, coaxing him delicately, shaking his shoulders: “Or you can treat me, okay?”
Relationship Insights:
Much of their relationship developed from the work collaboration aspect. The women often take the initiative and decide that it is only natural to be taken care of by the men, and the men’s “heroic” mentality makes them feel honored most of the time. The relationship is often more exploitative.
Potential crisis:
Because such relationships are based on simply “taking care of each other and using each other,” men and women often lack a common language. If the care fails, or if the “service” lacks thoughtfulness, the relationship will easily deteriorate. In addition, some scandals also appear around such “part-time parents”, maybe you just took a ride on the side of whoever, but how do others know where the car ends?
Ambiguous Relationship #7: Dating Partner
Ambiguity Index: ****
Cleanliness Index:**
Signature Slogan: “What’s fun about playing alone, I’m just finding myself a playmate.”
“He knows where the best food is, the funniest and newest things are, and can smell the ‘excitement’ of the city, so instead of just finding someone to keep me company, I should find someone who knows how to have fun.”
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Classic shots:
1. Every time the theater announced a new installment of the blockbuster cycle, she would immediately call him and ask him to prepare popcorn and Coke and accompany her to the movies, not minding whether she bought the tickets or he bought them, and not minding the overnight research She felt that there was no one better suited to be a confidant in this regard but him.
2. Every time he met with a group of friends on the forum, he would ask her to join him. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product that will be available to the public. The first time I saw this, I was able to get to the top of the list. It was as if her job was to eat and drink her way back into the money while he talked and laughed at the dinner table.
Relationship Insights:
They are not a couple, yet they often date, travel, drink, and watch movies …… as a regular dating partner. In a common sense, they can also be understood as “drinking friends”. They often have a common interest in a hobby or a behavior, and each date can be excited, happy to come and happy to go. The company is also in the ginger-dude fishing mode, where one wants to accompany the other.
It seems that the new new male-female relationship has been divided more and more finely, according to duties, hobbies, specific functions, and other aspects. And therein lies the subtlety – things come in small packages.
Potential crisis:
If a dating partner’s relationship is stable and defined enough, based on common interests, it can be called like-minded. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new product, which will be a new product. The first of these is the one who is willing to be accompanied by the one who is secretly in love with the one who wants to be accompanied, which is undoubtedly hurting the feelings of one of them and consuming the time of the other.