How do women know what they dream of in a relationship and what a woman should be like if men don’t tell them? The “Perfect Girlfriend” survey, in which 2,000 men participated, helped. The results of the survey revealed to the world the 7 conditions that men think the perfect woman should have! Oh, don’t rush to give your opinion, but let’s hear what he has to say first.
1. Laugh with me – or laugh at me
Seeing her in “Victoria’s Secret” (a premium lingerie brand) is not the ultimate goal in our pursuit of women. According to the survey, only 12% of men value only their body and looks when dealing with women, and more than 75% of men surveyed see humor, wit and grace as the top criteria for choosing a girlfriend, with humor being the most important – rather, it’s a measure of a partner’s ” The most important of these is humor – a measure of a partner’s “brain fit,” to be exact.
Humor plays three roles in a relationship. First, it is a “firefighter” that calms anger and reduces the number of arguments. Second, it helps us find a common language and determine whether we share the same views on the same matter. And last but not least, it shows women’s courage – the courage to laugh and laugh at themselves. A woman’s intelligence shines through in the humor of her talk, and we are captivated.
2. Love me and let the world know
97% of men surveyed want their girlfriends to show their love in public. Women who are brave enough to show their love in public are usually very confident – in their relationships and in themselves. Of course, such a show of affection does not mean a chicken-pecking at our faces in full view of the public. A soft kiss on a stroll or a loving glance over the heads of a crowd at a dinner party will also fill our hearts with love. How to master the intimacy? Just look at our reactions. If we want our lover to get closer, our bodies will move closer to them or our eyes will be filled with tenderness, not embarrassment.
3. Kiss me when I’m down
When we When we’re down and out, 67% of men don’t want to see a woman’s sympathetic tears, and simply stroking our tousled hair or straightening a crooked collar to show comfort is certainly not enough.
What should a truly thoughtful, understanding girlfriend look like? “A man wants a woman to stand up for and defend him in certain situations. Men are willing to accept help from a woman – provided the woman knows when he is most vulnerable and needs a helping hand the most.” said Kleck, an emotional expert who participated in the survey. One thing to note is that men would rather admit they have a weak side than admit their character flaws. So as women help us, please don’t attach your counting and nagging.
Please bring us a bowl of hot soup when we are sick, and kiss our faces to show support when we are having trouble in our careers. Whichever woman gives us a sense of security, we want to be with, otherwise, we just want to run away.
4. Compliment me – seriously
Don’t think women are the only ones who care about compliments from their partners, we’d all be happy if a woman said to a man, “You have a great body” or “You have sexy eyes” in all sincerity. Of course, such compliments are not limited to the body, complimenting us on our good jokes, or complimenting us on our good performance in bed (this is important!) These are all very well received. Only 8% of men surveyed would like to hear a woman’s appreciation of their body, while 66% would prefer to hear compliments on their partner’s “intangibles” such as personality, qualities or the way they handle themselves. Compliments should be sincere and specific – “You were great today!” or “You made me feel very secure!” . (88% female approval rate)
5: left;”>We inevitably meet up with our foxy friends for a little get-together at home, and if a woman puts on a cold face for my friends as a result, 83% of men will feel like they can’t hold their heads up in front of their friends. When we take our girlfriends to a party at a bar, we expect her to greet everyone graciously, drink the drinks toasted by her friends without squirming, and make excuses to leave early at the right time, leaving us free space, time. We will take such little things to heart, even if the next time a woman asks us to go shopping with her during the NBA broadcast, we will swallow our complaints. (0% female support)
6. Allow me to be with your friends
We admit we have jealousy, and at the same time we hate the kind of women who put on a show. We know that women sometimes like to flirt with men, and 79% of men are not guilty of being careful as long as they are not suspected of cheating. We want our girlfriends to be attractive in the eyes of others, and it makes us look good.
Please introduce me to your friends, especially male friends, getting to know them would make me a lot less suspicious than I need to be. You can also bring me to parties between you and your friends. You don’t need to take care of me deliberately, just keep eye contact is enough. (73% female support)
7. Calm our emotions
Men aren’t naturally “emotionally immune”; we’re just good at hiding it. When you notice that we are a bit abnormal, it is best to ask a “What’s wrong, all right?” as a sign of concern. If we are willing to talk, then please listen patiently and don’t rush us into a conversation – 34% of men only need a woman’s ear, not her mouth. For a man, it’s enough for a woman to listen carefully to what he’s telling him about his pain, not to help him out.
If our moods don’t improve after we’ve said it, help distract us by helping us forget about a difficult boss or troublesome client for a while. 32% of men are more likely to go out for a drink, watch a movie or cook a meal together. These are all good ways to distract ourselves. (60% for women)