The Polish poet Rudaki said that lovers kiss, like salt water; the madder you drink, the more intense your thirst becomes. But if you encounter a bad kiss, the high passion may hit the bottom in an instant. Today, we summarize the ten “commandments” of a perfect kiss.
1. Fresh breath is important
When kissing, his/her nose is only a few millimeters from your mouth, so if you don’t want your partner to be “smothered” by your own smelly mouth, you should rinse your mouth after eating garlic, onions, leeks, drinking coffee, or smoking. It’s a good idea to brush your teeth or chew gum if you can.
2. Don’t open your mouth too wide
When women kiss, they are used to opening their lips slightly, which can be a challenge for men. The truth is that kissing should be gradual. It’s easier to turn women on when you open your partner’s mouth slowly and keep expanding the tangle of lips and tongues.
3. Vary your posture
Changing the rhythm and posture of the kiss can add to the fun of the kiss and keep your partner hooked. It is especially taboo to keep one position the same when kissing, which not only causes painful pressure, but also tends to be annoying.
4. Don’t touch your hands
Maybe you think it’s romantic to touch each other while kissing. But here is a prerequisite, that you touch the right way. When kissing, you should gently caress your lover’s upper arms, back and neck, not roughly rub their hair.
5. Don’t move your tongue
Tongue kissing is very technical and when used poorly, it can be aggressive. Generally when kissing, just let the two people’s tongues touch somewhat gently and intermittently, and never use your tongue to lick each other’s teeth.
6. Be careful with the saliva
Most women are slightly clean, and if they get kissed with saliva all over their face, they will feel disgusted and lose interest in further lingering.
7. Don’t think about sex when you kiss
Kissing is not a regular “prelude” to sex. More often than not, a kiss is a bridge between two people, a signal of intimacy, a silent way of saying “I love you”. In a marriage, partners should kiss each other from time to time.
8. Close your eyes and enjoy
Sight is the first way people perceive the world. But during a kiss, you should close your eyes and use your mind to experience the momentary warmth. What’s more, when kissing, the distance between each other is minimal, and the flaws will be magnified instead of being beautiful.
9. Have confidence in your kiss
Don’t keep asking your partner how well you kissed. Because even if he/she has a complaint in mind, he/she won’t tell you directly.
10. Kissing also requires learning
Kissing is a skill, and practicing it regularly can significantly improve your kissing skills and make your partner want more.