1. At a party, you meet your ex-boyfriend with his new girlfriend:
a) You greet them kindly and offer to chat with his new girlfriend;
b) You hide in the corner and comment to your other female friends: “She’s not very good looking!”
c) You turn a blind eye and are busy with a bunch of skirts.
2. What do you think is the role of MSN?
a) A great way to keep in touch with your ex;
b) A way to put up all the pictures of you together on shared space and break him;
c) Since it’s over there will be no more contact. He’s long since been removed from your MSN list, much less let him see your shared space!
3. How many ex-boyfriends will you keep in touch with after you get married?
a) Almost all of them, we can be friends even if we can’t be lovers!
b)Just one. That was your first love in middle school and your best friend for over 10 years.
c) No contact with any of them!
4. These days you keep getting flowers and texts from your ex-boyfriend, as if there is a desire to get you back. Your reaction is:
a) Reassure him: “Actually, isn’t it nice to be friends?”
b)Great, your plan finally worked, you just knew he’d come around!
c) You return the flowers he sent you and don’t reply to any of his texts.
5. If you were renting an apartment together before you broke up, you would:
a) suggest that he stay on and you find another apartment;
b) give him a deadline to find a place to move before then;
c) his luggage would already be piled up in the hallway by you!
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6. You used to have a good relationship with his mom, so after the breakup you would:
a) talk together if you happened to run into each other;
b) ask her out to dinner often, with The purpose is to find out from her whether his son has any intention of coming back;
c) What is the point of hanging on to his mother when you have left him?
7. You still have some of his stuff at home, would you:
a) give it back to him if you see him;
b) give it back to him one at a time so you can take the opportunity to see him a few more times;
c) take what you can and sell it on Taobao.
8. Your ex-boyfriend left you without saying anything, and one day you see him again at the supermarket:
a) You smile and greet him as if nothing happened;
b) You ask him to sit outside for a cup of coffee and ask why he left you;
c) you walk around him and try not to be seen by him.
9. Who do you think caused the breakup in general:
a) Both parties are responsible, one slap on the wrist doesn’t make a difference;
b) He caused it;
c) You caused it.
10. That song you both love the most:
a) you still can’t help but smile when you happen to hear it;
b) you have to listen to it every day to fall asleep;
c) you deleted it from your iPod a long time ago.
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Test conclusion:
If you have options have the most a:You are a friendly woman in his eyes. For you, once a friend, always a friend. Only you will transform a hot and fiery love into a bland and watery friendship. Your approach may seem wise and generous, but beware, don’t fall into the trap of ambiguity. You have to admit that when you learn that he still quietly likes you, there will still be a slight sweetness in your heart, right? Don’t be carried away by complacency, think about why you broke up in the first place? It is likely to be a repeat of the tragedy in retrospect. It’s better to maintain your friendship, which will also be a treasure in life.
If you have the most b of your options:You are a romantic woman in his eyes. You always feel that the story of you and your ex-boyfriend is not over yet. You think that a temporary separation doesn’t mean anything and that you can’t let go of this man around you in your heart. But have you ever thought, is this out of love or out of selfishness? Are you inseparable from him or are you afraid that someone else will possess him? You seem to have confused the concept between the two. In fact, sometimes you just can’t get used to the day without him. Be careful, don’t overdo the romance. Otherwise, by the time you come to your senses again, you’ve missed another great opportunity to start a new relationship!
If you have the most c’s in your options:You’re a womanizer in his eyes. A breakup for you would mean a breakup. After the breakup you would never want anyone to mention your ex-boyfriend’s name in front of you again. His phone number you have long forgotten to the nine clouds, his friends you also all no longer contact. This is your way of forgetting the past and moving on. But sometimes the more you don’t want to think about it, the easier it is to miss the past when you’re alone. It’s good to get up and put down, but don’t be too hard on yourself. Love a person quickly, but forget a person is very difficult. The best way to get the most out of your life is to take your time.