Men and women have inextricable relationships with each other, there is mutual attraction, and naturally there is mutual repulsion, what kind of hidden relationship exists between them?
One, they are friends who talk to each other.
As a couple, the most basic thing is to be friends, and they should be good friends or confidants, unless you are just a couple in the purely physical sense of a heirloom type, how can you be a couple if you can’t even be friends, and even if you are barely a couple, it will not last.
Two, there are common values in life.
Things come together, friends should have a basic understanding of the world and values in life, or at least acquiesce to each other’s life values, otherwise how to do friends? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The first thing you need to do is to have a good understanding of what you want to do.
Three, the ability to fully understand each other trust.
Knowing each other is the basic premise of human interaction, and to be a couple, understanding is of course the most basic thing to do. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The first thing you need to do is to get to know each other, and if you can accept what you know, you have to fully trust each other, and without trust there is no relationship, especially for couples.
Fourth, it is easy to communicate with each other when things go wrong.
It is certainly inevitable that there will be some problems and conflicts between people, and couples are certainly the same, and because they are together every day, the likelihood of friction and conflict is even greater. The most important thing is to be able to communicate with each other and let the conflict develop to an unmanageable level.
Five, the spirit of sacrifice and devotion to each other.
Couples are typically a combination of rights and obligations, but what you get is not always proportional to what you give, nor can it be exactly equal. One of the spouses will always give more, while the other may give less. As a couple, of course, you can’t be calculating and have the spirit of dedication and sacrifice. The first thing you need to do is to be willing to sacrifice and give, which is one of the basic elements of being a couple.
Six, each other can do tolerance and generosity.
Everyone makes mistakes, everyone has flaws, and couples can find mistakes and flaws better because they are in close contact with each other. The couple should make progress together by forgiving small and insignificant flaws and mistakes and helping each other correct big ones.
Seventh, the ambition should be able to basically share the same interest.
Everyone has his or her own ambition, but couples should maintain a basic agreement and have roughly the same views on their interests and interests, so that they can keep in step and not get further and further apart from each other. The only way to live together for a long time is to have similar interests, and it is impossible for a couple to be happy if they look at each other differently.
Eight, each can firmly support the other.
An important difference between marriage and love is that marriage has to face more real-life pressures and problems, and it is also more tedious and even boring, and therefore encounters far more difficulties and problems. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a lot of money for their own personal use. If you retreat at the first sign of trouble, this is not even better than a friend, and you will not be able to carry on with your married life in the future.
9. Accept each other’s families.
Many young lovers often tend to overlook this point, thinking that marriage is a private matter between two people who can think of nothing else, which is of course a naive romanticism. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good understanding of what is going on in your family.
There is a basic foundation of material economy.
Being in love is not the same as being married, because marriage is more about the reality of life than romance, and without a certain amount of material economy, married life is impossible. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have the right amount of money to support your family.