In recent years, there have been many biased perceptions and ideas about women’s psychological motivations for premarital sex. From the perspective of sex psychology and sex sociology, the following 10 misconceptions can be summarized:
I. The pursuit of so-called “new” ways of love
Today China has entered a high-level, fast-paced, multi-colored period where lifestyles are changing and so are the ways of falling in love. Some young women say, “Conventional love is incomplete. True love should reflect greatness. Since I love him, then I can give him anything.” “Love should give freedom to the loved one, why wait until after marriage.” “What age is it already? How meaningless it is to be affectionate, I want to be ahead of history,” etc.
With the psychological domination of the new trend, they quickly move from first love to hot love, from marginal sex to core sex. As intoxicated embracing, kissing, caressing, provoking the strong impulse of sexual physiological instincts, so that reason has been difficult to resist. One survey found that 44.67% of women had multiple sexual relationships within six months, of which 50.33% said they were willing and 80.33% thought it was personal.
Two, the various notions of sexual freedom
With the influx of Western cultural The influx of Western culture and the occasional proliferation of sexual culture in China have impacted traditional sexual morality, which has deep cultural deposits. Some young people blindly admire the Western concept of sexual freedom, want to break through the so-called traditional concept of sexual morality of self-awareness is very strong. Some young women say, “We are facing the onslaught of eight tides, and even the most sensible women are confused.” The music box of morality can no longer appease the contradictory and painful souls and bodies of some young people today, whose sexuality has been equated with the primitive instinctive needs. As a result, some young women believe that “since they are mature, it is a biological need to satisfy their desires.”
Some say, “As long as you are happy with love,” and some say, “What is the fear of pregnancy, sex is not a sin.” “In the survey, 32.67% of women think that “chastity is not very important.” 19.7% of the women said that sex is not important, and that “it’s just the same”. When their love is still in the boat of not knowing how to navigate life sensibly, they are burned by lust and have sex that should not happen too early. Some have sex with their boyfriends periodically, and some have a premonition that the two are unlikely to end up married, but that particular relationship remains the same as ever. The distorted view of sexuality leads to distorted sexual behavior and “irresponsible consequences”.
Three, satisfying the curiosity and mystery of “sex”
Fourth, they appreciate their boyfriend’s affection and love for them
They also understand the importance of a woman’s chastity. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Some of them are very attentive to their own, giving them great help in their studies and life, or making a great sacrifice because their boyfriend has solved many difficulties for their relatives. Often feel the rest of the heart restless, plus report gratitude from the. When a boyfriend asks for sex, he fears that refusing will hurt his heart, so he takes meeting his boyfriend’s sexual demands as a reward for appreciating his deep love and generosity, which accounts for 18. 3% of the cases in the survey.
V. Eliminate your boyfriend’s uneasy worry about yourself
There are The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services that are designed to meet the needs of the market. However, for some men, the more active the woman, but he thinks too highly of himself, and even produce a sense of worry about the woman is not at ease, too cautious up, ambiguous attitude. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Six, escalating love relationships
Many young women use “The first thing you need to do is to have sex. Some believe that sex before marriage is the programmed requirements of love, the necessary way, early, you can determine the relationship early, so that love to upgrade, deepen, and strengthen the cohesion of both sides. Dictated by this idea of sex, they give their all too quickly.
VII. Maintaining a Marital Relationship
A survey in Beijing showed that
A survey in Beijing showed that among young men and women who had premarital sex, 90. 7% were in a clear engagement relationship but delayed getting married for various reasons, such as lack of housing, financial difficulties, not working together, and less than the legal minimum age for marriage. In order to maintain this covenant marriage relationship, both parties often have sexual intercourse. Are premarital sexual relationships also high-risk behaviors?
Eight, Understanding Your Boyfriend’s Sexual Function
Research points out that this type of The motivation is mostly seen in older unmarried people. They are cautious about getting married because they feel that it is not easy to choose a spouse and they expect to be happy after marriage. They are willing to make love with a lover they are happy with to learn about each other’s sexual function before marriage.
Nine, resisting environmental resistance
This is the reverse effect of the psychological development of love. The reverse effect of the process. The first thing you need to do is to get the support and approval of the people in your environment, especially your parents and friends, when you are in love. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Ten, in exchange for vanity
In today’s society, with The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. Some people are willing to spend money in order to pursue sexual pleasure and to please beautiful women. So, some women in order to meet their own vanity, not hesitate to exchange their bodies for property, and soon give up the female “first time”; some in the temptation of money, “love” constantly transfer, resulting in “unclear origin The “first time” is the first time that a woman is pregnant.