There is nothing in the world more difficult to deal with women, the most sophisticated, the need for strategy, Confucius said: the world’s only small people and women are difficult to raise! It seems that children and women are as bad to deal with. So usually, you have to pay attention to their words, never say something to a woman should not say, and certain things. Here is a summary of ten points to learn and share with you:
One, a woman is most afraid of a man saying she looks ugly
If you are really honest to the point of telling the truth, even if she is ugly, for a woman, this is the most serious damage to her self-esteem.
If this man doesn’t have a deep grudge against this woman and is eager for a deeper relationship with her, and he actually says this, it’s accurate evidence that he’s a sympathetic brain shrinker with a small brain rot.
Two, women are most afraid of men talking down to her
This is very It’s killing me, especially if you’re indiscriminately poking fun at her. It took stubborn genes plus at least two decades of history to form the image of a woman’s current character and habits.
If you don’t like it at all, we suggest that you move on before it’s too late.
Three, women are most afraid of men criticizing her parents
Her parents It’s your parents, and it’s important to know that a woman has lived with her parents for at least until about twenty years, and you’ve only been friends with her for a few years.
A man who has to compete with an old man and woman is the same as a fat girl who likes to compare her figure with a middle-aged sister-in-law, a purely ridiculous expression of vulnerability. So assuming you say her parents, then she can think that your parents must not have raised you properly either.
Fourth, women are most afraid that men are often calculating
If you invite A woman’s first meal together, it is advisable to always bring enough RMB. The beautiful woman at the next table ordered a number of after-dinner snacks after a meal of abalone and bird’s nest, and even asked for a rose from the flower girl.
And your table, after eating two plates of fried noodles, two people only dry eyes, and then you actually enthusiastically invited the woman immediately to your single dormitory night chat, I believe the woman, as long as not an idiot, will definitely think you are an idiot, at this time the woman in addition to inwardly to you and your The woman in addition to inwardly to you and your chow mein report to turn over the ridicule, you will have nothing to gain. It is important to understand that applying frugality to certain areas is absolutely foolish, and to remember that investment is always proportional to return.
Fifth, women are most afraid of men who are narrow-minded and do not distinguish between right and wrong
If If a man has the hobby of a big mother and sister-in-law, wasting his work energy on talking about the Wang family’s affair today and the Li family’s teacher-student relationship tomorrow, and there is a woman who actually adores your boring speeches, then she is definitely gay if she is not empty inside.
Take a lesson from Ken Takakura, if your ideology is really not beyond the level of a big mother and sister-in-law, keeping quiet is the best option.
Sixth, women are most afraid of men who are easily bored with the old, to get what they want
Man The woman who gets to meet his basic needs of life and then to cast a net to hunt for women is a sign of disrespect for women and their feelings, and women who know how to respect themselves will not hesitate to leave you.
This kind of man if there are still women around, you can be sure that it is also stupid and not self-respecting women, so you can also see that the prey of the hunting class of men to hand is always inferior.
Seven, women are most afraid of men helping friends and relatives without permission
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The man and the woman are getting married next week.
This is typical of an individualist who has no concept of family, and the man’s behavior can be seen as a harbinger of what the woman will suffer after marriage. The woman is foolish enough to be dazzled by him to get into the boat of thieves, and it will be difficult to get out of it when the rice is cooked.
Eight, women are most afraid to take on all the housework
If you have machismo, you must adhere to the policy that both men and women must work. No one likes to do the work of a nanny, but a woman will feel a little balance and comfort inside if a man takes the initiative to share half of it for her, or give her a little help when she does the housework, and at least nail it in the procedure.
Otherwise, the woman will suspect that the man married her purely for the purpose of tricking her into being a free babysitter, and over time the two will come into conflict. Unless, of course, you find a woman with masochistic tendencies.
Nine, women are most afraid of men not thinking about progress, negative life
In animals’ mating season, males are showing proactive aggressive spirit. In the human season of love, men should also show striving.
If a man is not diligent, is lazy at work, or even doesn’t go to work and hides at home, the masculinity in such a man has been diluted to the level of monks, eunuchs, and retired old men. If a woman is willing to marry him, is destined to be a voluntary life reduction of N years, willing to dedicate themselves to the old comrades early into their old age stupid sacrifice
Ten, women are most afraid of men’s vices stained body difficult to extricate themselves, dumping their families gambling, trampling themselves
If a woman is unfortunate enough to meet such a man, if a woman meets a man who is unfortunate enough to become like this in the near future, if a woman is not able to convince a man to change his ways, hurry up and hang on to this relationship! If the man has any humanity left, he should immediately throw the woman away and set her free!