If the depth of a relationship is the basis for its development, then how to strengthen the relationship between two people is of utmost importance. And sweet words in which, which can not be ignored the role. Maybe just meet and love each other, we will be more to tell each other’s feelings, together for a long time, will gradually less. This is not a good idea.
1. text-indent:2em;text-align:left;”>Many people think that since they are married, they are their own people and their own people don’t need to be thanked, and thanking them instead seems rusty. But research by psychosocial researcher Algie shows that gratitude can influence the relationship between couples, and that the number and sincerity of expressions of gratitude are directly proportional to a couple’s satisfaction with their married life.
The experiment asked couples to express gratitude to their significant other every night for two weeks, while rating relationship satisfaction and couple tightness. And the results showed that the more they thanked their partner for that day, the better the relationship felt, and the more connected they felt to their partner, and the more satisfied they were with their relationship the next day. In addition, their partners were more satisfied with their relationship on that day and felt more connected to each other.
So showing gratitude to your significant other, rather than taking their help and acts of kindness for granted, strengthens the relationship and achieves harmony over time. When he is lifting heavy things, helping you share household chores, making milk for you, taking care of you when you are sick …… have you ever expressed gratitude? You don’t have to say “thank you”, it’s enough to respond with sweet words like “you’re so nice”.
When the other person has good news, you have to act happier than the other person and praise them to give them great satisfaction in spirit. Especially for men, getting praise and admiration from their loved ones gives them a sense of accomplishment more than the actual good news. Beyond that, stay focused and actively engaged during the conversation, and use body language to express your interest and excitement!
2. Exude positive energy
So-called positive emotions are such as, joy, gratitude, peace, attention, expectation, pride, self-gratification, being inspired, awe, and love. Psychologist Fred. Ricketson found that positive emotions (even if fleeting) expand our thinking and allow us to connect more closely with other people.
The happiness of a family has a lot to do with the personality of the matriarch who holds the barometer of that family. If the matriarch is warm, funny, and cheerful, then the atmosphere of the family is relaxed and enjoyable. If the hostess is cold, withdrawn and neurotic, then the atmosphere of the family is cold and in a state of tension at all times.
Some women will use words like: so many chores to do, where’s the heart to listen to them chatter, why not let them do some chores for me, tired of working all day, just want to sleep …… and so on. The words pond stuffed. In fact, doing housework is to keep the home clean and tidy, work is also to make the family life better, which is not in conflict with the family mood, you can let them do housework with you together with chat, or simply put down housework for the time being, because the other party’s desire to talk is short-lived, and housework can be done at any time.
When your lover has a lot of negative emotions, be patient and listen, learn to empathize, and use hugs and good sex to comfort and release him. Show him that you trust him and show weakness accordingly to stir up his energy to overcome stress.
3. Stay true to yourself
Social psychologist Vali Lander’s research found that partners retain their selves while becoming more intimate, contributing to the development of mature relationships. Such intimacy allows each other to continue to cultivate their respective hobbies rather than suppressing themselves and becoming overly dependent on each other. Keeping your ego positive in response will allow you to take a stand and have a point of view in every response and not stray from the surface, allowing the other person to feel flattered and you to respond willingly rather than in a forced form.
4. Let him feel your care and love
Women are The first thing you need to do is to be able to use your own personal computer. For couples, if one side has too much psychological advantage, it will sooner or later make the side that pays more feel unbalanced and the marriage crisis will appear at any time. Although couples do not have to be too careful to calculate who gave how much, but if one party endlessly demanding, so that the other party feel that their own efforts and efforts are always not recognized and affirmed, it will feel no need to continue to give. The most important thing to do is to take the time to reflect on yourself and prevent any problems before they occur.
Even if you are beautiful and rich, there is no reason for you to make your lover give endlessly. A single overriding of the other is tantamount to emotional abuse of him. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of the most popular and popular items. The ideal way for couples to get along is to let each other feel that his love can always be responded to, and his self-esteem can be inflated in front of you, not in front of you to doubt their own merits and lower their self-worth. Only then will he love without complaint.
No matter how long you’ve been with him or not, the need to operate and maintain a relationship is always there. This need will not change over time, and if you pay attention and give to each other, you will get unexpected rewards.