The world is perhaps the most lacking is really regret medicine, whenever we look for a long time to conquer, find a person to match for life, but with the passage of events, will find this or that is not as good. The heart clearly knows that “do not listen to the old man’s words in front of the loss”, but still without regret “do not hit the wall do not turn back!” The following commandments are for the reference of sisters in love!
Ten silly things you should never do before getting married
The first commandment: don’t let the in-laws meet too early
Thought that it would be good for both parents to meet and get closer, but this is actually a big mistake, after getting familiar with each other, it will gradually due to The most important thing is that the two sides are not only the same, but also the same. The best is that the marriage, both in-laws meet again, keep in a polite state best! It is also best to meet less after marriage! As the saying goes, “Distance produces beauty!”
Second commandment: don’t develop a shopping preference for your future in-laws
You can’t love to buy things for your in-laws too much before the wedding holidays and so on, but when it comes to your own home, you don’t make demands on your husband.
After a long time, this will gradually make the husband used to the idea that it is normal to buy things for his mother and father, forming the idea that a girl should marry to be dominated by her in-laws. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
The third commandment: don’t be too enthusiastic about taking on the in-laws’ household chores before marriage
Don’t take the initiative to take on things like cooking, laundry, and washing clothes for your husband before you get married, girls should maintain some reserve, or you will make your mother-in-law think you care about her son, or you care about their family! Do some of it appropriately, but don’t get too involved.
The fourth commandment: don’t talk too much about your own mother’s family at your in-laws
Speaking without meaning to listen, don’t talk to your mother-in-law about your own mother’s family, and talk about TV shows and current events if you feel bored. The less your in-laws know about your own family’s affairs, the better! Especially if you have sisters and brothers, who your parents bought a house for, who bought a car, etc.! In the future when you buy a house, a car and other things, your mother-in-law will be concerned whether you yourself are getting financial support from your mother’s family.
The fifth commandment: don’t meet with your in-laws too early
Think you’re okay to meet again. After meeting, also do not spend all day long in the in-laws, otherwise they will make them think you care too much about their son’s relationship, the girl should hold the end of the time to hold.
The sixth commandment: never spend the night at your in-laws’ house before marriage
The reason for spending the night at your in-laws’ house too early is the same as the third commandment, but even more so.
The Seventh Commandment: Have sex before marriage and be known by your in-laws
What else is there to say? The in-laws will look down on you! If you get a mother-in-law who has a lot to do, you’re dead.
Eighth commandment: Go to your in-laws’ house for New Year’s Eve
There’s plenty of time after marriage, so spend more time with your parents now! For the same reason as the third commandment.
The Ninth Commandment: Learn to say no
When your mother-in-law is rude to you or your family in words or actions, or makes unreasonable demands, politely stop them and say no! The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Understand what is called aggravated! Of course you have to be civilized and polite! Maintain the ladylike style! Don’t be condescending.
Tenth commandment: spend too much money to your in-laws before marriage
You want to live a long life, give it all at once, what about later? For example: this time the young uncle has no money for college, you sponsor a thousand or 800, next time the young aunt also has something, you give less, it will be trouble.
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