Security is a very subtle word when it comes to relationships. We always test each other by intentionally or unintentionally, whether we really love you or not. Such tricks are still useful nowadays? How about learning about the current popular relationship model? It’s a great way to get rid of outdated tricks and make two people more comfortable together.
1. style=”text-indent:2em;text-align:left;”>Everyone has had a failed experience, don’t let those bad memories become an excuse to block happiness, how can you know if the other person is Mr. Right if you haven’t given them a chance?
Perhaps this is an experience that everyone has. Sometimes past experiences can keep us from getting hurt, and sometimes past experiences can prevent you from getting happy. In a relationship, experience should only be used as a reference.
2. Always envy other people’s boyfriends
Don’t see The consequences of double-mindedness are often double-headed.
Remember when you were a kid, your parents always said to you, “Look who’s who in so-and-so’s family is so-and-so. At that time, did you feel very hurt in your heart? Very unconvinced? You are doing this to your boyfriend when he is also very hurt. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you’re not envious.
3. Pretend you don’t like the person you like
If you are shy or reserved and deny that you don’t like the other person, then sorry, falling in love is not a guessing game, you never know what you are thinking until you say so.
In elementary school, we used to do this all the time when we were playing house. But now that we’re older, it’s time to learn how adults fall in love, to be bold and direct.
4. Over time, dating doesn’t matter
Dating doesn’t
Dating is not only the easiest way to develop a relationship, but it’s also a great way to get to know each other’s preferences, interests, personalities, etc. Don’t let laziness or other reasons prevent you from making time to date your significant other.
Even couples who have been together for a long time can learn about each other’s latest changes through dating.
5. People’s comments around you make you unhappy
Why To mind what people say? You have your own way of falling in love, you have your own way of pursuing happiness, and trying to please everyone is not easy, much less something you should have to do.
6. If you feel lonely, find someone to fall in love with
This is something we’ve all heard a lot about. We’ve all heard about it a lot, but does it really end well in the end? When you take advantage of others, won’t you feel a little bit of emptiness in your heart? Don’t ever start a relationship in such a pathetic way.
If you’re just holding each other back for selfish reasons, instead of keeping her/him because you like her/him, believe me this relationship won’t last, and how long can you expect it to last if both people are unhappy?
7. Stop trying to get to know each other after getting frustrated
8. Respect each other, not make them into what you want them to be
We often talk about love and respect, but does it ever really happen? Liking someone starts with respecting them, because respect is the first step to start trust anyway.
Many people think, “My boyfriend is supposed to be how he is. This is your personal idea, when this man is in front of you, you also need to respect each other, so that it can last oh.
9. Like a guy and want him to like you, but hesitate to act
Maybe it’s because you see something imperfect in him, maybe it’s because you’re afraid of failure, maybe you’re not brave enough, so you keep just thinking and botching the action.
Don’t keep hanging on to your ideal list, if everything could go the way you want it to, then there wouldn’t be such a thing as disappointment! Go with your feelings, like is like, why limit yourself to the box?
10. Be yourself in front of the other person
Some people are already
Some people are not good with words, and that’s okay, after all, sweet words are not as sincere as heartfelt ones.
It’s important to be generous with yourself in front of the person you like. After all, he will still get to know after we have a chance to be together. Don’t worry.