Every family has a difficult story to tell, and the factor that makes the family atmosphere tense is often the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In view of this situation, young women should find out the character of their mother-in-law before marriage, as well as understand some of the necessary in-law taboos. So here are a few of the six taboos of mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship before marriage, which I will tell you in detail below, come and get to know it.
One, don’t nurture a shopping preference for your future in-laws
Some women love to save face and want to please their mother-in-law-to-be, so they often buy things for their mother-in-law on certain holidays during the week, but when it’s their turn to go back to their own home and face their parents, they don’t make demands on their boyfriends. In fact, such a habit is very bad, because in the long run will make the boyfriend become a husband after the formation of habits, that buy things for his mother is supposed to. This can easily end up in conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Two, never spend the night at your mother-in-law’s house before marriage
Because people of your mother-in-law’s generation are very conservative in their thinking and are very mindful of whether their future daughter-in-law has integrity or not. Therefore, if you are not married, do not spend the night at your mother-in-law’s house, and if you live with your boyfriend before marriage, do not talk to your mother-in-law, because this will make your mother-in-law look down on you. If you meet a nosy old lady, you’ll be dead.
Three, don’t talk too much about your mother’s family at your in-laws’ house
Unmarried women should also be aware of the fact that they are not allowed to talk about their mother’s family. The women should also be careful not to talk too much about their mother’s family in their in-laws’ home. The woman tends to think a lot, and when the mother-in-law’s basket of words opens up, she will ask you a lot of questions that she can’t handle, such as what things the mother’s family will pay for in the future, how much the mother’s family is responsible for buying a car and a house, and so on. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Four, don’t let the in-laws meet too early
In life, I believe The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re getting into. Because both parents met, they have a general understanding of each other, but also very easy due to each other’s habits, personalities and misunderstandings and conflicts. Therefore, it is better for both parents not to meet too early.
V. Unmarried women should not Meet with in-laws too early
Unmarried women should not meet with their in-laws-to-be too early without preparation, as this will easily leave a bad impression even if they have met. The woman who has already met with her mother-in-law should also behave and hold her own, and not stay at her in-laws’ house all day long, staying for a while and then leaving. The more time you spend at your mother-in-law’s house, the more likely it is that problems will arise.
Six, don’t be too enthusiastic about taking on your in-laws’ household chores before marriage
In life, there are also many girls who, before they get married, go to their in-laws’ house to help their mother-in-law-to-be with the housework and do their boyfriend’s laundry. Because, this will make the mother-in-law-to-be feel that you care too much about her son and too much about their family, and also that you are not reserved. And the right thing for unmarried women to do is to do a little bit of housework, but to not get too involved.