What determines which side of a relationship is dominant and which side is inferior? Many girls have this confusion, as the relationship time increases, the power of the two sides also entered the phase of this and that, the past the patient and obedient boyfriend gradually become irritable, the two among the dominant position gradually occupied by him. Why is this?
Can you do things on your own?
If you dare to run away to Tibet for a trip without your boyfriend, I’m sure no man will dare to underestimate you!
The unrestrained and courageous nature you exude makes a man feel like he can’t control you, so he won’t easily make a move in front of you.
Are you confident?
Not every girl is as beautiful as the next, but every girl can be very confident.
If you don’t have the right looks, at least you have the right body; if you don’t have the right body, at least you have the right intelligence and humor; if you don’t have the right wisdom, at least you have the right heart and the right years, each of which is a great capital, enough to enrich your The first thing you need to do is to have a good understanding of your own self-confidence.
As long as you have enough confidence, your boyfriend won’t dare to make fun of your flaws. Even if he says something, you should snicker. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Who’s going to initiate your date?
Normally, how many nights out of the week do you spend with your boyfriend? How do you determine how to date? Do you take the initiative to ask him out every time?
If you’re actively asking him out more than 3 times a week, then take my word for it and cut out at least 2. Men have a “hunter” nature in their bones, and he wants to take the initiative to chase rather than be chased like prey. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Do you have your own social circle?
The girl who doesn’t want to be celibate and is always longing to be pampered is what men call a “gumdrop. The girl who doesn’t want to be alone is always longing to be pampered. The weekend boyfriend working overtime can not accompany her will also make her sad to tears. Such a girl will indeed provoke the man’s compassion, but be careful, it is in his good mood. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
No social circle of your own, follow him to all the parties, sit next to him and listen to his tall tales, then you can’t blame him for bossing you around. He will think you are not independent enough and will see your dependence on him as a burden.
With the weekend fast approaching, which one of you is getting more calls? If it’s you, or flagging, great, your boyfriend at least knows that you have your own twitter sub and that you can be happy alone without him, he may not be too happy for a while, but in time he will be more respectful.
Who’s going to organize the chores of life?
If you’re relying on him to organize your daily routine, your relationship is not far from the end.
A friend is having a wedding, what should you get for it? Who calls the repair department when the DVD at home doesn’t read the disc? Who will order the food when you dine out? Do not underestimate these trivial things in life, only a clear-headed person can arrange all this in an orderly and interesting way. In the middle of a couple of lovers, whoever sways these chores, whoever has more good ideas, will play a leading role in the relationship between the two people. And the one who is greedy for comfort and afraid of worrying will have to be directed by someone else.
Are you stylish enough?
What’s wrong with keeping your message and your boyfriend on the same wavelength!
Can you name the current hottest movie off the top of your head? Do you regularly browse the news and keep up with world events? Do you regularly read popular books and comprehensive periodicals and magazines (don’t just stare at the makeup and dressing tips published in fashion magazines)? Do you know what new features are available on the most innovative brands of cell phones? Do you know the latest hot restaurant opening? If the answer is “yes”, congratulations on joining the ranks of “fashion girls”. The newest and most popular brand of mobile phone is the newest and most popular restaurant.