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After I graduated from college in ’04, I experienced a heartfelt first love. Of course, it turned out to be a no-brainer. I had a long time to adjust and was very resistant to love. The next few years I worked in Beijing for a while, where women are generally older and married later, and I didn’t feel old.

In ’09, for some reasons at home, I chose to go back to the prefecture-level city where our hometown is located and start my own business, which is quite profitable. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The family has been pushing, relatives and friends have introduced a lot. But because of the previous work environment and contact with people very different from them, so it is also difficult to meet a good match. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.

I know I’m getting older and my chances of meeting the right person in our area are slim, but I don’t want to get married just for the sake of getting married, for fear that I’ll regret it in the future. I was very conflicted. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. Age is 2 years younger than me.

I’m not sure if I’m a big fan of the idea.

When we started to meet, it was a bit of love at first sight, a very tacit understanding, and I felt that the other person was the one I had been looking for. He had two previous girlfriends, the first from college, and was very much in love, but split up because her parents asked him to buy a house in town, which he couldn’t afford at the time. So at the beginning he said that he didn’t have a house and hoped we could struggle together.

Both of our hometowns are rural and not too far away. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public. His sister graduated from graduate school and got married this year. The middle of their family conditions have been bad, the siblings school tuition is their own part-time jobs plus borrowed, and then he graduated slowly to pay off. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.

Both of us are in our third year of life, and buying a house and getting married and having kids are on the agenda. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem. So, he wants to get married early, so that his parents early peace of mind. I can understand all this.

 

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In our small city, the down payment for a house is just over 100,000 to 200,000. I want to buy a house at the end of this year, he gets his hands on a salary of 70,000 to 80,000 (because he didn’t work much after the New Year, he only started working in May), I can give him 50,000, then borrow some more to make the down payment. Of course, we will not ask for money from his parents or my parents. The price of housing has been rising, married without a house, women are insecure. Besides, it’s no big financial pressure for him. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.

When I mentioned to him about buying a house, we had a big fight. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. He also said that because of the liquidity in my hands, it will affect my business. If you do not buy a house, you can also invest money in me, so that I do more and more. In addition, his sister said she could lend us 100,000 to buy a house, and when she buys a house we will finance her. But he said, his mother’s current that condition, he and his sister have to keep some money in their hands for emergencies, can not put all the money on the house, and do not want to be a house slave so early. I don’t want to buy a house when I can’t afford it.

I was quite disappointed.

The first thing he did was to get married early because his mother was happy, and he paid so much for his mother’s illness and his father’s debt, but when it came to our own lives, all he thought about was his family and himself, and he never thought about me. What do you mean no financial ability? It is a common saying that a man who marries a man wears clothes and eats. A man to get married, you have to shoulder the responsibility of the family, wife and children after the direction of life, are what he should plan to consider. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.

I’m an emotionally driven person, it’s not that I can’t wait until next year to buy a house, I just think this whole thing has shown me where I stand in his heart. This kind of marriage makes me a little hesitant. In fact, his overall condition is not very good, I married him, not at all the meaning of high climb. I just think that two people like each other, good feelings is the most important. So I don’t care about the rest. But I am so aware of the results, so let me down. Now there are several questions I want to ask the doll:

1 Does he really love me? Is it possible to marry such a man?

2 Is there any shadow in the heart of someone who has lost love because of a house?

3 Is it feasible to get married first and then buy a house?

4 Can I make my own mortgage payments on a small house, and then when he has enough money he can buy a larger one and we can each make our own payments? Will this affect the relationship?

5 Is it possible that the more concessions I make, the less pressure he will feel to take on more responsibility?

6 Is it a good idea to leave the kids out of the equation for now until we buy a house after we get married?

He has since been apologizing to me and has said that he agreed to buy a house at the end of the year, that he didn’t consider it well before, etc. I was quite upset and was rather indifferent to him. Because of previous emotional trauma, I especially care whether the other party is wholeheartedly devoted to me and whether they put me first. But it seems that I am a bit naive at the moment. I hope the doll will give me some guidance in her busy schedule, thanks a lot!

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Expert Response:

Hello.

Some time ago I read a book about how to analyze people’s emotions by scanning their brain activity areas. It said that no matter how “loving” it is, women will never like things like baldness, or men will never like things like unattractiveness, but they can tolerate it if the other person has other good qualities to compensate. So you should understand that it is possible for him to really love you, it is possible to compromise, but you are certainly not his most preferable choice. There is no doubt about that.

And it’s pretty clear that this is something that people also shouted at you from the beginning: I’m house-less, and you’re willing to struggle with me to make it work. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. I think this is understandable, change you, if you have sufficient financial resources to buy their own car, you will be willing to squeeze the bus every day? The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem.

You asked about getting married before you buy a house, and I don’t think that’s a problem. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. The woman who is as old as you are, with children looming and a strong sense of insecurity, if you get married first and then buy a house, you will probably not be able to pass your own hurdle. So in your personal situation, I don’t think it’s a good idea to get married first and then buy a house.

He used the fact that his mom was sick and maybe needed the money as a front, and then said he wanted to take the money for the wedding to give his family peace of mind. This inconsistency shows that he is actually willing to pay for the money, just not for the house. The thing that seems to us next to you is that you want to get you while paying as little as possible before marriage, and want to keep more for yourself, so try to kill the price.

But maybe because you bit the price and didn’t let up, he saw no hope of killing the price and agreed to your offer. This doesn’t mean anything, it doesn’t mean he’s not sincere with you, it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you, it just means he’s not a particularly generous person, not a person who thinks about you in particular. Of course, when it comes to 100% wholehearted love, there is certainly none.

Then again, with another person, you want 100% love is probably also hanging. The reason is that, to be honest, it is very difficult to find the kind of relationship you want in your condition. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.

Since we’re talking about the countryside, I’m going to get a little cheesy and say that the countryside is very patriarchal and most people don’t want to raise daughters, so it’s hard for a man to get a wife when he grows up, and a lot of wives are bought with money, and normal daughters-in-law are given bride price, and the more bride price is given, the more the in-laws value the daughter-in-law, and the better the daughter-in-law is. And such people in love, you have to comply with their way, do not because of their big city floating a few years, run to pursue what love at first sight. That’s not for you, and it will also lead to you not having a high enough status after marriage.

For this type of man who has reservations about you, whether for objective or subjective reasons, you have to get him to really shell out more money before marriage. The reason is that this type of person he is not 100% putting his heart on you, but sees you as a resource and tries to eat in at a low price, so don’t play innocent and stifled. Let this type of person pay more for you, he will value you. Only the kind of man who genuinely and simply talks to you about his feelings, you can talk to him about his feelings.

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