The current trend of “sister-brother relationship” is not only reflected in the celebrities, but also in the real life, there are many around us ordinary people. The so-called “sister-brother relationship” refers to a relationship in which the female partner is older than the male partner and looks like an older sister with a younger brother, and “sister-brother relationship” as a social phenomenon is usually a combination of a man in his 20s and a woman in her 30s.
The phenomenon of “sister-brother” relationships, a social phenomenon, is often a combination of men in their 20s and women in their 30s, which contrasts greatly with the traditional view of marriage.
The reasons why women accept sister-brother relationships are obvious. The company’s main business is to promote the development of the company’s products and services. The newest addition to the list is the “mature” women who want to try their hand at sister-brother relationships.
Common pattern of sister-brother relationship: strong woman stable man
From the member cases of the marriage agency, we found that the pattern of sister-brother relationship is usually strong woman stable man
Ms. C has a successful career and good investment vision, and she has bought several properties before getting married. She once went on a blind date with a man older than her, and several times it didn’t work out – older men attached as much importance to their careers as they did to their own, hoping to find a gentle and virtuous little wife, hard and fast, and unhappy. In the marriage agency’s advice, with the attitude of trying to accept sister-brother relationship, trying to match with men two or three years younger than themselves, I did not expect and now my husband fell in love at first sight, and three months later got married.
Hu Zhanhong pointed out that from the perspective of gender equality, this model is actually the same as the traditional strong man weak woman model, except that the roles of men and women have been switched. The strong-weak pairing is one of the most solid pairings for sibling relationships.
The celebrity sibling relationships seem to be going well, dating for 2-3 years, getting married and having children. The real-life version of sibling love is not always smooth. The most important thing is that the younger brother in the relationship is enthusiastic and has a clear goal, so he doesn’t mind a quick battle, but the big deal is to get together and break up; but the older sister in the relationship has more worries and doubts, because if the marriage fails, the re-choice will be more passive.
Long-term plan: sister to be calm
Love comes when you can’t always care so much? In view of some instability in sibling relationships, experts suggest that sisters should do a good job of steering the ship in the marriage, and do a good job of psychological construction from the very beginning of the relationship.
When in a hot relationship, it is important to see if the two personalities complement each other. If both parties are in the same category, there is more chance of conflict later. If the relationship is predicated on marriage, it is important to consider whether the other party has wealth on their mind – we can’t avoid the little brother who has the idea of finding a rich woman and struggling for 10 years less.
The younger brother in a sibling relationship proposes to the older sister, and there are three questions to figure out: 1. Is the other person ready? Is it impulsive? The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem.
When it comes to getting married, experts mentioned the need to reach a consensus on having children as early as possible to avoid being a dinkDo you want your sister to tie your little brother’s husband’s heart with a child? It turns out that this is a twofold consideration: one is the issue of the sister’s age of marriage and childbirth, after a few more years of the two-person world sister will have to do advanced maternal age; the second is the joint nurturing of small children will allow the male partner to mature in his thinking, catalyzing him to complete the role transition from boy to man, boyfriend to husband, which is conducive to the stability of sibling relationships.
Secret recipe for keeping a long-lasting sibling relationship
1. Many women in sibling relationships worry that they will age faster, which is not scientifically justified. Even if they age fast, a man who truly loves you will not abandon you. If the failure of sibling relationships is due to getting old and being abandoned by men only means that the man is not worth loving.
2. It doesn’t matter if the man is much younger than you are in a sister-brother relationship, the younger brother is more youthful and energetic and can bring youthfulness and beautiful reverie to the woman.
3. According to a survey, women in sibling relationships have a longer life expectancy, so it is easier to find a man who is smaller than you to grow old.
4. Women do not reach their sexual peak until they are in their 30s or 40s, so couples in sibling relationships will have a more harmonious sex life.
5. Love is your personal private matter, no one has the right to interfere, what’s wrong with sibling love? Don’t care about what others see. You are not loving for others, living for others.
Sisterhood is like finding a job, it is a two-way choice. In the past, the idea was that the woman was three years or more older than the man, and the man might have to endure and break through worldly pressures to get together with the woman. Now, the open social climate has created an opportunity for both. The bridesmaids at the marriage agency have found that the younger brothers who accept sister-brother relationships. Most of them are returnees from abroad, they simply do not have the burden of this. In addition, the Oedipus complex of the little brother, although not openly asked for sister-brother relationship, but the choice of spouse will also be obviously inclined to choose older than their own mature women.