In most of our perceptions, marriage is a blend of love, sex, family and friendship, but there are some people who have sexless marriages, which may make you feel very confused as to why a sexless marriage can still be maintained. It? The following is a detailed look at it.
Should a sexless marriage last?
1. Marriage is an economic community and cannot be spelled out just in bed. We should know that a sexless marriage does not refer to those marriages that are not only sexless but also without love. Marriage is an economic community that cannot be maintained by just spelling it out in bed, but is more of a story about the mutual integration of love, friendship and affection, and the dual support between husband and wife.
2. The expectation of the future sustains the feelings between each other. The reason why sexless marriages last is that everyone is very close and the relationship between the two people is already very strong, and the anticipation of the future sustains everyone with each other.
3. Sexual incompetence is a small thing, love is a big thing. In fact, what many people cannot accept is not the absence of sex, but the transformation of the relationship after marriage. The reason a lot of girls change quite a bit after marriage is that they feel like guys don’t care about them as much after they’re married, but it’s this change in perception that makes it seem like sexual incompetence isn’t really a big deal, but rather that he doesn’t seem to love them as much.
What are women’s perceptions of a sexless marriage?
1. I’m not attractive anymore, he doesn’t love me. Many people say that marriage is the grave of love, and for a sexless marriage, women are even more likely to wonder if they are unattractive and if he doesn’t love them anymore, and this perception can lead women into a misunderstanding that can lead to family disputes.
2. What women can’t stand is not sexlessness, but indifference and discrimination. A sexless marriage is nothing for women, but women are not unable to tolerate sexlessness, but they cannot tolerate their husbands’ indifference and discrimination against them, fearing that their husbands will feel that they have become less gentle and virtuous, or that they do not always know how to clean up after themselves and do not look as good as they used to, and this feeling is killing women.
3. No sex after two people get married is not that scary, but no communication between the two people, no more intimate conversation like before is what scares girls the most.
But it’s true that some people won’t be able to accept a sexless marriage anyway, but if your relationship is strong enough, then your choice of sex will have a pattern that tends to stabilize, so it’s possible to go on with or without sex. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get a long time to go on.