Men always say that women are in charge too much, and when they give him enough freedom, they can’t imagine that he cheats on them. The mistake of cheating is unforgivable, it will be a lifetime of not being able to forget a mistake, even if you still live with him later. The man cheated, for the sake of the family, for the sake of the children, should he be forgiven? Should a man who cheats be forgiven?
Divorce is recommended without children
If you don’t have children yet , it is advisable that you consider divorce. Because for whatever reason, this is an irresponsible act on the part of the man. Once it’s done, there’s no going back. Some things are like that. As long as he has the heart to cheat, he is no longer the man you know and is determined not to forgive.
Consider carefully if you have children
If you have children, first Confirm how much affection still exists between the two. Then see if his attitude of repentance is sincere. Children are innocent, adults have to be more tolerant than children, so that the pain does not fall directly on the child. See if he still loves the family and loves his wife. If it is that he still has a conscience to discover and will change his ways, give him a chance. Even if he sincerely repents, he must finally be warned that the next time he commits a crime is the day of divorce.
Forgiveness is not the answer
Forgiveness is not the answer.
Forgiveness is not the way to solve the problem, and whether to forgive depends on whether the other party has recognized the mistake, has really returned, if they really return, put down their own baggage, take advantage of the present life, will certainly get positive results, if the other party has not really returned at all, what can you forgive?
Can you live better
Extra-marital affairs, to forgive or not Men, it’s up to you to decide if you can live better without this man. If you can live better without him, then you leave, if you leave him, it is difficult for you to start again from scratch in all aspects, then you just can’t leave him.