The first time I did a micro-interview, the topic was “Why did Ta break up with you” and I was a little nervous and slow to answer. I thought many people would be embarrassed to ask about their own breakups, because when I said it in my twitter feed, many of my fans said: “How can we ask about this topic, who wants to poke their own scars?
But the fact that 139 people asked questions shows that there are still a lot of people whose wounds haven’t healed; there are still a lot of people who simply don’t care about saving face because they were indeed wounded too deeply.
Summarize a few similar reasons for breaking up, plus my comments and advice, into an article for others who are going through the same thing.
Take sex for love
@nana**** asked @Old Ugly: Hello, I previously knew a man who verbally told me he would always be together, usually said he was busy and did not contact me, and every month said he wanted to get a room with me, I proposed a breakup, begging me to get back together later, and then still the same as before The very little contact, and then directly no news, after a few months 2 days before contacting me said recently are making money.
Old Joker replies: To summarize your story, I only read three words: pity, deal, sex. No matter how you arrange them, they don’t make up “love”. I have only one word for you: your body will never satisfy his sexual desire.
Parental obstruction
@FriedYang**** asked @OldClown: Both parties are studying for a master’s degree and are not from the same province. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem of the problem. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem.
Old Joker replies: What’s so depressing about it? The first thing you should do is to be happy. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
The indifferent type
@Lovey **** to @oldjoker: People want what they want, but if they don’t want it, they pull the plug! I don’t feel safe at all! I don’t have any sense of security. I don’t have a name, a phone number, a promise, nothing! I’m not sure if I’m going to be able to get a good deal on this. The first time I saw a girl like that was when I was a kid.
@rescuech**** to @oldjoker: One more question, previous joke. The first thing I want to know is how to tell if a man really likes you? Want to marry you? And not just want to have fun with you? The question may be a bit big, but what is it anyway, sometimes he just doesn’t contact you, and sometimes he’s nice to you?
Old Joker replies: You know what a spare tire is? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Either he wants to capture you want to make your heart in turmoil, but such a situation began to exist, but it is unlikely to last too long; or he originally looked at you, but he could not find a suitable, so you have become his partner, but not his only. So are you still going to be with her? We need to step outside and look at ourselves from time to time.
Dating Confused
Question from @朶格**** to @老丑: Why aren’t you answering my questions, and I grabbed a good seat!!! Why is it that a relationship always gets boring after 2 months? Why is it that a relationship always gets boring after 2 months? Is it because you don’t like it enough?
@LinRu**** asked @LaoJiao: He said he didn’t feel anything. Is it true that feelings are more important than emotions?
Old Joker replies: Ugly words, hard to hear. But I think you need to understand what the purpose of your relationship is and what kind of guy you really want. If it’s only for a momentary pleasure, then when the passion recedes, you will naturally look at him with displeasure; if it’s for a long-lasting marriage in the future, living together, then what does it matter if the passion dissipates? Do you think so? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Signs before splitting type
@He is **** asked @Old Ugly: A few months before the breakup, she was nothing different to me, just sometimes I saw her often go to study room with a certain boy to study, I told her, but she said nothing don’t let me think too much, shortly after she said we are not suitable and split with me. The first time I saw it, I was able to see it.
@Ahac**** asked @Old Ugly: My boyfriend left society a year before me and I’m still in school. I think he’s changed since he left society, he’s not patient with me anymore, his attitude is bad, I don’t reply to his texts, and he often says things that make me feel very insecure.
Old Joker replies: This is just nakedly explicit. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Returning after the breakup
@Overcome **** asked @Old Ugly: One thing I don’t know, when I broke up, the man said a million harsh words, but after the breakup, he meant to get back and apologize to me, is this normal?
@Love is **** asked @Old Joker: He was the one who broke up with me, and then he came back to harass me, is it necessary to continue this difficult relationship as the one who was broken up with?
Reply: This is normal, too many men do this; but if you accept him again, it’s not normal. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. –The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public.