When a woman is single, the world is anxious about her, and when she gets married, post-marital anxiety comes back to haunt them. In the end, how does post-marital anxiety come about and what does it show? A woman must know that the only way to have a good life is to have a good mind.
1, compare each other, vanity is particularly strong
Although, let your own The woman’s life is the ultimate goal of every man, but also a great motivation for men’s lifelong struggle, however, men have always resented women’s unprincipled comparison with each other, each other’s competition, especially those not according to their own economic conditions of blind comparison, the kind of over-inflated vanity, but also will let men live in a state of mental tension all day, so that men feel that living with such a wife The pressure is really too much.
2, hope that the husband will become a dragon, hope that the husband will be proud of his wife
Most of the women want to be married to a “good man”. The majority of women want to be able to marry a “rich second generation” or “official second generation”, however, such opportunities are not always available to everyone, so more women put their hopes on the fact that they can raise a “rich first generation” or “official second generation”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
3. Lack of consideration, self-consciousness
Growing up in a family of only children, girls are accustomed to The majority of young women only care about their own feelings, with their own sense of good and bad to arrange the small family life after marriage, perhaps she herself does not know, although it is their own inadvertent fault, there will still be cold to the male parents family or relatives and friends of things happen, and eventually it will lead to strong dissatisfaction of the husband and The first thing that happens is that the husband’s parents and relatives and friends are not happy.
4. Suspicious and restrictive of husband’s freedom
Controlling The girl also has the problem of suspicion, although the woman’s desire to control is inherent in modern marriage is more obvious, especially in modern society, the temptation of flowers and plants outside the home is really a lot, the wife is too defensive, the tube can not control, if the wife’s lack of self-confidence and suspicious, for fear that her husband to pick the roadside wildflowers and everywhere guarded, thus simply limit the personal freedom of the husband. The husband is tired of living himself more tired.
5、Arrogant and domineering, disregarding the dignity of the husband
Many girls, although The company’s main goal is to provide a comprehensive range of products and services to the public. Thus, the control and counter-control will become the most friction between the couple’s problems. In fact, a smart woman can learn to be more skillful in managing her husband, allowing him to move freely within the wife’s view.
6. Spending money in excess, weak financial management skills
6. ALIGN:left;TEXT-INDENT:2em”>Women like to go shopping in malls, like to admire beautiful things, like to take expensive items for themselves, so women’s natural greed will lead to women easily suffer from the symptoms of shopaholism, however, young people, after all, have limited income, and after the monthly return of the mortgage, will always be stretched, if spending money without a plan The problem is that this has become a common problem for many post-1985 girls.
7. Between girlfriends, feel free to disclose privacy
Some newlywed women do not value privacy in marriage. The most important thing is that you have to be able to get a good idea of what you’re getting into and what you’re getting out of it. The actual fact is that the family or the couple’s affairs are definitely not to be shared with the next person, if a person can even take out their own privacy to become a public topic, such a smart and stupid woman is really a bit two hundred and fifty.