What seems to be a classic guide to love is actually a “non-canonical” way to kill it. I don’t know how many redheads have lost their lives to these seven words.
1.If a man is not bad, a woman does not love
Are all women masochists? masochists? In fact, women just don’t like guys who are stereotypical, awkward and uninteresting. Relatively speaking, “bad” men are more interesting. But this “bad” should have a special meaning, is the kind of old-fashioned movie in which the heroine turned around shyly and poked the hero’s head with a finger: “You, this person, really bad!” The real bad man is very scary, smart women will soon sniff out the smell, in time to escape. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re doing.
2. Men like beautiful, stupid women
Princess Diana, in order to please the prince, stayed slim. To please the prince and stay slim, she began vomiting after eating, which later developed into an unstoppable vomiting disorder. For this, Charles was not grateful; instead, he recalled with disgust, “My honeymoon smelled of vomit.” But the old, ugly Camilla was such that even those who condemned her for breaking up the royal marriage had to say, “Camilla was not only smart, she was funny.”
Literature and art, politics and economics, she could talk eloquently, and in private she was a passionate and indulgent lover, and when they first met she was not as shy as a schoolgirl to say hello, she said something like, “My great-grandmother was your great-grandfather’s mistress, what do you think?” Beauty is something men value in a woman, but love is not a poster to look at, nor is it a one-night stand. When the attraction caused by beauty fades, how can life not be boring and dull if you are faced with a sluggish, awkward lover every day?
3. Men shouldn’t make women cry
Men are not saviors. Women are not clay dolls. In love, tolerance and understanding are desirable; however, unlimited and absolute demands are also unreasonable. Only with “equality” can a healthy and deep love be created between people. If the phrase is interpreted as “men can not be cruel to hurt women”, then it should also be supplemented with “women can not be cruel to hurt men”. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
4.Not for long, but for once
Third parties often say this when they first become third parties. The first time I became a third party, I often said this, but then most of them cried out for a “long time”. What’s the point of deceiving yourself and others. Another situation is the fear of taking responsibility. I have a friend, her ex-boyfriend the most she can not stand is always to make it clear that “we do not necessarily marry in the future”, the friend finally irritated, even “once had” do not want. Her ex-boyfriend was stimulated by this, and suddenly felt unable to leave her, actually proposed marriage. The company’s first-ever “The New York Times” was a great success.
5. Together because you don’t know, apart because you do
This “adage” seems to have been around for a long time, based on the theory that “distance creates beauty”, and that a flower from afar is a mess up close. So this kind of love marriage guidance has also emerged, saying that in the marriage of the couple should also maintain a sense of mystery, do not often expose their naked body in front of each other. A friend of mine recently got divorced, and his ex-wife followed this dogma. When she was in the shower, the gentleman must not go in, and if he accidentally went in, she would scream and cover her body with a bath towel, as if she were a hooligan.
A friend’s comment was, “What’s the use? Where on her have I not seen that before?” Is it that easy to get to know a person? Just a few years of work and you get to know someone of the opposite sex who is very different from you and get tired of her? Only a love based on understanding is deep and lasting.
6. We broke up because we were meant to be together
It seems like modern people are saying The reasoning, in fact, is not much different from the ancient people ranking the birth date and eight characters. If you’re in love, you don’t reflect on your own reasons, but you blame it on fate, saying that fate is inscrutable, just like a child who trips and falls and doesn’t say he’s not careful, but hits the bench and scolds it for being in the way. The actual reason for the bad love is to find out the real reason, not to blame others.
7. Find someone who loves you and forget about the person you love
In this words, the person who loves you and the person you love are certainly not the same person. “Prefer to find the person who loves you” is quite affordable, only receiving, not giving. I just haven’t heard that people who split their lives will be happy. Moreover, it seems that love is not exactly a business, profit is greater than the cost, you earn. Quite the contrary, love in itself is more blessed by loving people than by being loved.
Love incompetence is an epidemic in modern society. If you can truly love someone and are truly suffering for love, then congratulations, your mind and body are sound, and your suffering is not yet the despair of a world full of unloved people. Being unloved cannot be forced, but first, having the ability to love is a blessing.