In marital life, it often happens that ladies cry and ask: “Husband is fooling around outside, not coming home, there are not even many beautiful women out there, why is he so cheap? Husband sex life can not meet the wife, why also go to play other women?” This is the confusion of some virtuous women. Some women also ask: “I fought hard with him, and now I am devoted to the family, why he betrayed me and went out to fool around? Does he still have a conscience?” For these doubts, we may want to analyze the physical and psychological aspects to be able to find the answer.
Men’s extramarital sex, generally including prostitution, one-night stands, extramarital lovers, package second wife, etc., it can be said that these are immoral or illegal behavior, should be condemned or legal sanctions. But the condemnation and sanctions to today still failed to solve the problem, but more and more intensified, what is the reason? Survey data, summarizing the psychological factors of their cheating are as follows:
Curiosity
Curiosity is in everyone, and when it comes to sex, men are more inquisitive. Exploration, if only between couples, will add to a legitimate sex life. However, some men with less self-control are attracted by the unknown mystery of “what will other women be like if their wives are like this?” Attracted by such an unknown mystery, they will have sex outside of marriage. If he finds that ZAI with another woman is no different from ZAI with his wife, or inferior to his wife, and may also cause some trouble, then he may stop it. If he finds that the taste of the “wild flower” is really different, and he has some financial means or charm, then he may also be addicted to it.
Adventure mentality
As the saying goes The last two lines of “A wife is worse than a concubine, a concubine is worse than a maid, a maid is worse than a thief” are a reflection of the adventurous spirit. Usually men are more adventurous than women, if used in the life of the couple, may be able to create some new patterns, or to mobilize interest in the life of the couple. But if used in other women will be a problem. Some men encounter setbacks in the process of sexual adventure – such as sexual dysfunction, contracting or fearing sexually transmitted diseases – and may return to their families. There are men who take risks for fun, and that’s dangerous. Then there is the individual man who can only get sexual pleasure or overwhelming sexual feelings from sexual adventures, and he may then repeatedly commit them.
Conquest mentality
The desire to conquer is shared by both men and women. When in love, men chase women down, or women take men under their skirts, all belong to the satisfaction of the conquest mentality. After marriage, some men in order to show their skills, or to find self-confidence, or because of the desire for sex, will be to conquer other women to meet their desire to conquer. Conquer the woman’s “sex” purpose in several ways: (1) capture the woman’s heart and body. (2) just want to possess the woman’s body. (3) in sex to make women want to live and die, to show their sexual ability. (4) there is a special phenomenon, some men like to watch the sexual response of women – especially the sexual GC response, it is observed by conquering different women, and even through the prostitute to achieve the purpose. In this regard, Ximen Qing in The Golden Lotus is a typical example. The first time I saw a woman, I had to go to a place where I could see her.
Compensation psychology
Men appear to compensate Psychological triggers are divided into the following categories: (1) the wife can not satisfy her husband due to sexual dysfunction, sexual psychological “> sexual psychological disorders, injuries and illnesses, or unwilling to satisfy her husband due to the wrong sexual concept, or even sexual punishment as a means to resolve the conflict between husband and wife. (2) the wife or poor figure and appearance, or old age, or injury or illness resulting in disability, etc. (3) wife domineering, fierce, seriously undermining the husband’s self-esteem, easy to make the husband tempted by the outside of the warmth, and then develop into a sexual relationship, or even marriage. (4) The husband’s sexual desire is too strong for the wife to meet.
Revenge psychology
Because of the wife’s red-letter wife
Sexual revenge for a woman who is a virgin, or is not a virgin, or has been played with emotionally by a woman for psychological balance.
Good sense of victory
On some occasions, a friend has gotten it on and he or she has cowered. Friends on, their own cowering would be too embarrassing, the result is face harm; or in a bet with others, encouraged, good and strong for it.
Animal instincts
Most animals do not practice monogamy. The majority of animals do not practice “monogamy”, and this animal property exists in the nature of human beings; when social constraints do not work, it will reveal the true nature of the animal. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.