There is a similarity between the secret of choosing a man and shopping. No matter how much the shopkeeper talks about it, it doesn’t mean how good the item actually is, we must observe it ourselves, evaluate it ourselves, and occasionally refer to the word of mouth. A man who assures you how good he is may just be the old king selling his gourd. A really good man may never boast about how good he is, but you can feel it in the way he behaves.
A man pursuing a woman is like applying for an interview for a job with a title called “boyfriend”. The resume is just a door knocker, women have to assess the suitability of this candidate from the speech, demeanor, attitude, potential future sex, etc. The devil hides in the details, so observe the following seven key details as reference indicators.
I. Respect, tolerance and values from dating:
Dating is definitely a good time to observe each other, from the location, activities, and meal choices, to see if he will respect your opinion. If you do not eat spicy, he should not force you to eat spicy pot, or at least change a mandarin duck pot. You can go to high-end restaurants and also accept roadside food, indicating that this person’s life and for the use of money are more flexible. Will he respect your time and not be late for appointments? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Two: Suitability and Personality from Talking:
Chatting is important in gender I always feel that it is important for two people to have “something to talk about”, especially for a married couple, and finding someone to talk to for life is happiness. Talking can reveal a person’s cultivation and personality. Does he always have an indecent mantra to greet your mother at any time? Is he always talking about himself without the habit of listening? Are you interested in what he has to say? Does he only talk about things that are not meaningful and not share his deeper thoughts and opinions? The only way to be a soulmate is to have a sexual partner.
Three, from the small details of our relationship:
When we eat together, does he take the initiative to get the food?
The pursuit of The same goes for the “boyfriend” job. Find opportunities to get to know each other’s friends, colleagues and family. Find out what kind of friends he has, how he relates to his colleagues, and how his family treats him. You may find a different side of him in his interactions with family and friends.
V. Trustworthiness from workplace performance:
A person who person who can’t take responsibility for their job is likely to be unable to take responsibility for their relationship as well. Changing jobs often is likely to be a sign of insufficient resistance and stability, which reveals that his personality may have a lack of maturity. Never changing jobs may also be a sign of being content with the status quo and not seeking advancement. Does he have an intention to work, or is he just doing it perfunctorily? The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Six: Romantic interest from casual life:
A person’s fun can be seen by asking them what they do on vacation. When you are on vacation, you are at home playing online games until late at night and then sleeping until you wake up, the same activity week after week with little change. If his leisure life is so uninteresting, how can you expect the love of two people will have any romantic interest? Unless you are also a home-bound, corrupt woman, two people can become fossils and still be together.
Seventh, the habits and personality from the dress and belongings:
Dressing can tell a lot about a person’s taste as well as personality. People who wear suits and pants at all times have a more formal personality. Those who like casual clothes and jeans may be more casual and comfortable. The man who dresses casually with almost no idea may even want you to buy underwear for him in the future. The man who is thrifty by nature, I’m afraid, is also longing for a woman to take care of him. The people who admire the brand name but only buy the cottage version, the personality is more pompous. The company’s products and services are also available in a wide range of sizes and sizes.