The 6 common love fatalities of Chinese women, how many of them do you account for?
One, Chinese women don’t know how to love themselves
For a lesson that has been missing for thousands of years, Chinese women have made up for it in 100 years, which is not easy to do, but because this lesson is so involved in happiness, a score of 60 is not enough. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
In fact, the root of Chinese women’s unhappiness is that we rarely think of ourselves as subjects of the world, and our first reaction to problems is always “what will others think? The simplest example of this is the amount of effort and money Chinese women spend on “underwear” and “outerwear” respectively. The most simple example of this is to see how much effort and money Chinese women put into their “lingerie” and “outerwear” respectively, and to be confused by the “ego” that some seemingly raised-eyebrow women are talking about today.
Of course, this comes from what we’ve been taught since childhood: “To be a lady is to put your responsibility to others above your right to be a human being. The first time I saw this was when I was a young woman, and I was a young woman. So we often tear our own souls and bodies apart with our own hands in a daze of light smiles.
2. Chinese women believe in love
Love is the ancient flower of women’s hearts all over the world – in the US, the best-selling women’s books on the market all start with “Howto “How to get a man’s attention in 3 minutes, how to give him the night of a lifetime, how to keep him for life …… is a very exciting and fun game. But here in Chinese women, love has become a business of sitting upright, its importance even more than living itself.
It’s easy to find out that the above actions are comparable to waiting for a rabbit, and then fall into the mire of “why can’t I find a rich man who loves me & I love” like a grass, but of course, it’s better, no, it must, to add “a good sex life “
They have to put dogs, cats, and rats in a cage, and they have to thrive, which is not self-defeating.
Three, Chinese women are too afraid of getting old
Of course, no woman is afraid of getting old – “A: My sister and I are 60 years old combined. ” The canonical joke is not from China, yet today, in the 21st century, there are few communities that are more afraid of aging than Chinese women.
In recent years, the world’s biggest cosmetic brands have added Chinese instructions to their products, as the Chinese market is overtaking Japan as Asia’s top market – or maybe Chinese women are paid $8,000 a month, but that doesn’t stop us from buying a $4,000 bottle of cream without blinking an eye. Even though we are fighting for our lives to make money, we are aging more quickly, but …… is still looking at the immediate future.
First of all, of course, because we are terrified by the look of our mothers who have only known how to apply sunscreen since they were 40 years old; secondly, who has seen a Chinese woman’s face with even the slightest hint of fine lines after scouring all the big and small TV and print ads in the market? In other words, there are wrinkles? Please retire from the world, please; Finally, or the most critical: a well-known magazine has a Chinese woman dressed as the old and young two styling out on the street, the results? The old one almost smiled badly and broke his lips, but no man glanced at him.
No one – Chinese men – cares about the souls of Chinese women.
Fourth, Chinese women like to feel sorry for themselves
Generous speech at the company’s top meeting, the most lumpy customers in one fell swoop, fly halfway around the world in two weeks …… or Chinese women have done, but when the night is late, a beautiful woman alone, eyes in the mirror gray tired face, the reigning Chinese woman’s pace is more consistent: “Ay, I a woman, what is this figure ah?” The entire ambition is now only the remaining waves.
According to a workplace survey, it’s easy for Chinese women to move up to the middle, but very few can make it to the top because there’s a glass ceiling above our heads that’s hard to see, but exists all the time: our own “female identity”. “A girl, can do so has been very difficult!” Does this sound familiar? Yes, this is the highest praise that the more outstanding Chinese girls can hear from childhood. As for those who are mediocre: “It’s okay, it’s good to be a girl.”
The career ender for Chinese women is just six words: it’s a woman after all.
Five, Chinese women lack style
Chinese women often complain: romance, the Achilles heel of Chinese men. But in fact, the root of romance is truncated from the Chinese woman.
First, let’s talk about the definition of romance in the minds of Chinese women. The first thing you need to do is to take a look at the definition of romance in a Chinese woman’s mind. Moonlight, stars, rose petals and rain? No, no, unless it’s seen standing on the deck of a luxury yacht. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re looking for. Sorry that is the cellar. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Even if you live in a good kiln, Chinese women’s charm index is questionable – who can blame them, we haven’t learned that lesson at all. The magazine says all day long that the eyes are charming, but there are very few Chinese women who can seriously fly a lump charming eyes. Some women think that learning to scream twice in porn is romantic, but they know nothing about the most basic elements of style, such as humor.
Sixth, Chinese women are keen to compare
Knowing that “people are better than people, people are angry”, Chinese women are the best than: than the origin, than the color, than the bust, than the rate of return, than the alma mater, than the position, than the income, than the number of rows sitting at the fashion conference …… The poorest thing is that Chinese men are more than Chinese women.
The result of the comparison can only be a mixture of grief and anger – don’t worry, there is always someone better than you. The company’s main goal is to provide a better solution to the problem. The Chinese women’s jealousy is often not the so-called “white jealousy” that inspires people, but the ugly and vicious “black jealousy” that “I told you not to get better”. The saddest or funny thing is that if a man cheats on his wife, the Chinese woman’s biggest complaint is not the selfish, irresponsible man, she is cloaked and gnashing her teeth, but the one to be put to death is often the mostly innocent woman.
Self-aware, self-confident women don’t bother to compare.