Yao Chen also went through a “window” period after her divorce from ex-husband Ling Xiaosu in 2011, until 2012 when Yao Chen said on twitter that “two people together can resist life”. The two of them were married to Cao Yu on November 17, 2012, and their son “Little Tudou” was born on July 15, 2013.
As for the acceptance of women in second marriages, 12.21% said they could not accept women in second marriages anyway, 15.19% said it depended on the situation, leaving 72.6% of netizens saying they could accept women in second marriages. 42.92% of netizens also said The percentage exceeds the benefits that being young and pretty brings to women in second marriages.
Experts explain how remarried women can win a second chance at life
For The experts on the panel of emotional experts gave the following advice on how second-married women can have their own happiness:
1. ayawawa (best-selling author on emotions): Women should dress themselves to keep their partner’s value
Your value in the marriage market has to stay high. Everyone’s mindset is the same, and you have to stay that way all the time. It’s like work, you can’t say I accompanied your boss and we hit the jackpot, so it’s all mine. I still have to shine and shine and shine and shine in the company.
One of the easiest ways to say that is to keep your partner’s value. It means that even if you get divorced today and your husband is gone. You’ll still be able to find a good husband right away. Immediately you still have the same value. So for a woman, what she has to do is to dress herself and not do too much to make her heart feel resentful.
2. Forbidden Cricket (emotional blogger): Don’t go looking for love but for a good man
When it comes to what kind of mindset a woman in a second marriage has to have in order to win happiness, the Forbidden City Cricket believes that: don’t deliberately go looking for love, but for a man who treats her well, judged by the following criteria: 1. the man is observing the rules of society and shows that he has a legitimate and stable career; 2. he is sincere to her and shows that he doesn’t lie; 3. he is self-respecting, and self-respect is shown by He knows the relationship between give and take – give to get back, give when you get, don’t get if you don’t want to give.
Second marriages must be done with the mindset of living life to the fullest and not expecting a blast of love. Only by integrating the love for each other into a fine and uneventful life, the two people who remarry can be happier.