Office romance is definitely not a new topic, and proponents and opponents have different opinions. However, in the modern world of increasingly busy work, office white-collar workers work overtime every day and simply do not have enough time to develop love outside the company. More and more people are aiming at their colleagues who work with them, officeromance is becoming more and more popular, and some companies are even building bridges of convenience for their staff and organizing more bonding activities.
Office romance is actually a timeless topic. In the early days, we can talk about the love between servants and eunuchs in the ancient court, such as Miao Cicada and Lu Bu; in modern times, it is also the type of romance that is often focused on.
Particularly with the release of the movie “Dulala’s Promotion”, office romance has once again become the focus of white-collar conversation, whether it is in the city of love or outside the people will gossip on a: Dulala like office romance, you can afford to mess with it?
Office romance by category
Sweet Fantasy Type
Jones from The BJ Bachelor Diaries
Jones from The BJ Bachelor Diaries
Jones, played by Renee Zellweger, always keeps her single diary in the movie, the ones about her best friends, exercise, diet, workplace, and men, sex ……. In fact, every white-collar worker is more or less like Jones, who has a crush on someone she meets at work. This crush can come from the other person’s appearance, talk, professional background, work ability or even bad taste; and for some men, it can also be a sexual fantasy.
The Unhappy Type
Tokyo Rika and Wanji in Tokyo Love Story
I always felt that Rika chose to leave Wanji and go to America alone because the omnipresent shadow of Wanji in the office made her feel uncomfortable. The most courageous of all is Rika, but also the most cowardly. She can always silently love and bless him, but it is inevitable that when she hears that he is married and has a child, her heart is saddened. The best way to heal such an office romance is to leave.
Creeping type
“Dullah Lara and Wang Wei in “The Promotion”
Dura and Wang Wei first played underground because DB did not allow dual-employee relationships. Many business owners believe that having a couple in the company will be more detrimental to the unfolding of work and will easily result in biased opinions or management eccentricity. As a result, most office lovers choose to use internet tools or to pass on their affection at work, and only have “body language” at the end of the day, and never disclose their affair as a last resort.
Make it look awkward
Margaret and Andrew in “Fake Marriage Margaret and Andrew
Margaret, a female boss, coerces Andrew, a male subordinate with American citizenship, into a fake marriage in order to obtain residency in the United States. The two fell in love. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of a new generation of companies that will be able to provide the best possible service to their customers.
Laws of the Workplace: Remember the Eight Commandments of Office Romance
The Workplace In the workplace, there are many leftover men and women who may be too busy to work and neglect their relationship problems, or they may not have the time and opportunity to find love. However, in the workplace circle, they have become affectionate over time and have developed a mutual ambiguity to become a couple. Most companies do not allow internal employees to fall in love, so it is necessary to keep in mind the eight commandments of office romance!
The First Commandment
Don’t fall head over heels in love at the office. Don’t put your whole heart into the relationship. If you and the office hottie only stop at a couple of floral dates, and one of you is already planning to discontinue the affair. But if you’ve been tangled up on the side of the row from the beginning, it’s not so easy to stay out of his way during work hours. That’s why once an office romance develops, be sure to – don’t rush the date; try to be discreet at company parties; it’s best not to drink on the first few dates; and don’t let anything interfere with your judgment during the wait-and-see phase of the relationship. Do the right thing at the right time; women don’t fall in head over heels.
Second Commandment
Private Matters Please Keep PrivatePrivate matters are best kept out of Talk about it in public, especially if you two are in a relationship. If people find out, they will start to guess where you go after work and stop caring about your job performance; or your co-workers will start to think you are the type of person who collects boyfriends, and assuming you are dating a high-ranking executive, people are more likely to think the worst of you. If you don’t want someone to assess your ability to perform and value in the wrong way, handle gossip rumors carefully by – staggering your arrival times at work; trying not to meet up during work hours and minimizing time alone; and not bringing personal things into the office.
The third commandment
Stay calm when you’re caught and don’t act like a bird of prey. As Manhattan psychiatrist Ivan sees it, staying calm isn’t about lying or even denying it, it’s a dignified way of telling the other person that it’s not up for discussion. So unless it’s your boss who opens up and confronts you, then you can start by showing that you didn’t tell him at first because you didn’t think it would affect your job performance, then confess the affair, and finally reiterate that you can control it pretty well yourself.
The Fourth Commandment
How to avoid revealing that you’ve lost the image of professional insight? That is, you should try to avoid working too closely together. Don’t be too lenient with him if you have to evaluate his work, but don’t overdo it and miss the mark either.
The Fifth Commandment
Never make out in the office even if you’re in love The first thing you need to do is to make out in the office. If you make out in the office and the supervisor finds out, you could be fired immediately. It’s important to understand that it’s not a good idea to make out in the workplace.
The sixth commandment
Don’t discuss salary. The position is the same, but if your salary is higher than his, it will be very guilty and make the other person feel unbalanced, so it’s better to avoid talking about it.
The Seventh Commandment
Breakups must be deliberate if the person who initiated the breakup is you. If you are the one to break up, your ultimate goal is to not let him spread the word around. It has to be polite, if he feels hurt, then you may be the next one to be hurt by other people’s gossip. What if unfortunately you are the one who is rejected? It’s sad, but you must act as if nothing is wrong, try to chat with friends and family to spread the word and remind yourself that you have a job besides love and a life outside of work.
Eighth Commandment
Don’t easily quit your job after years of fighting in the workplace. There is no credit and there is hard work. Do not easily give up everything in front of you for a failed relationship. Whether the relationship is successful or not, resignation is the next best thing. Love and bread are equally important, don’t give up your career, unless you have arranged the next step, and is a high promotion, or definitely not rashly. And resignation is undoubtedly announced “here is no silver, three hundred taels”. The company’s main focus is on the development of a new product.
Reasons to say no
Workplace romance isn’t a flooding beast, but it’s easy to get in trouble once you get involved. It’s easy to get into a lot of trouble once you get involved! So the smartest thing to do is to keep a safe distance and stay away from office romance. The most important thing is to keep a safe distance and stay away from office romance. In workplace heterosexual interactions, insist on the separation of public and private, remember that men and women are different, and improve social intelligence, so you can easily get a clean and good relationship!
You can’t get a commitment to fall in love with your boss
He’s handsome again The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Don’t love him and don’t think about him, don’t take care of his thoughtfulness to give birth to many attachments, he can’t give you the results you can’t give him the promise, love to love to go to waste hurt not count also affect the good future. In the big story of the West Journey of the Supreme Treasure will say: Why suffer? The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Relationships with subordinates are in danger of being replaced
New graduates The young boy’s youthful enthusiasm in college has not yet worn out, and can be consumed and squandered, but you? You graduated five years easily promoted to do the department manager, do not know how many people are eyeing your position, how can you brain on his eyes in the pair of boyish still fallen in their own? Don’t fall in love with him, don’t end up beating your teeth and swallowing your blood, watching him walk away and the new guy approach and take your place with a smile.
Can’t get warmth from falling in love with a regular coworker
A love affair The best way to get the most out of a relationship is for one person to have to go somewhere else, unless you’re determined to fight a guerrilla war with him, unless you and he don’t take it seriously and just want to find an arm to keep each other warm, but such a fast-food relationship, the longest you can grow is a flower on your desk, and it’s not thrown in the trash early after an afternoon and a half.
It’s dangerous to fall in love with the new hot guy
Despite his big eyes and curly hair, you’re in love with him. The company’s first step is to find out that you’re a super-duper nymphomaniac. The company’s reputation for being gentle and introverted has been ruined over the years, and it’s not worth it.