Trial marriage has certain benefits, but also certain risks. To avoid aesthetic fatigue or intense conflicts in the life of premarital cohabitation, trial marriage people should be prepared for the following nine psychological preparation:
1. Choose to live together, be prepared to find out what you do not know about his shortcomings of the mind.
Before cohabitation, each date, each other is in front of each other to show their most perfect side, after cohabitation is likely to let down their guard, their real life state completely exposed in front of each other. Since you have chosen to live together, you should be fully prepared to meet all his flaws that you know, and learn how to tolerate each other and adjust your mode of living together in time.
2. Don’t ask about each other’s privacy. Living together doesn’t mean he is your personal property.
Even after marriage, you should respect each other’s privacy. The fact that you are living together does not mean that you practice each other’s privacy also to inventory everything. The company’s main goal is to provide a more efficient and effective way to improve the quality of its services. It is also easier for you to feel happy and secure by focusing more on your future and less on his past.
3. While simulating married life don’t forget that life needs flirtation and occasional romance is something that must be adhered to.
Although living together is an early stage of married life, even if you do get married, you still have to remember to add spice to your life, don’t let life be all about the food and water, remember to go out on romantic dates once in a while, snuggling up after a candlelit dinner and watching a movie is also a good choice. The occasional romance can make your cohabitation less tedious.
4. Don’t make yourself his wife just because you’re living together, and don’t make yourself his babysitter.
Maybe you think that since you are living together I should take good care of him and make him think I am a good wife and mother. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
So don’t get into the role as soon as you move in together and present yourself as his wife, a nanny-like woman is hardly going to win a man over. If this is something that anyone can do well, there is absolutely no need for him to have to pick you to date.
5. Give each other some freedom and don’t act like a housekeeper controlling his outings with friends.
Two people’s relationships are like rubber bands, they can break if they are stretched too tightly, even though they are flexible. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the company’s customers to meet and work together.
6. Don’t let both families get involved in your lives too soon.
Don’t meet each other’s families too soon, and keep this in mind even more so when your own cohabitation life is not even fully stable. Family problems are likely to be the trigger for your fights, so it’s better to enjoy and consolidate your cohabitation first.
7. Cohabitation is not really marriage, and there is no need to share finances.
The choice to live together does bring you closer, but not so close that you don’t even share your financial income. The fact that finances are managed separately can reduce a lot of conflicts in getting along and can make each other feel respected. Don’t start taking over his wallet with the notion that you deserve it.
8. Respect each other’s habits and try to accommodate each other.
In cohabitation, it is a big issue whether the habits of both parties can be well adjusted. The first thing you need to do is to learn how to use your own computer. So learn to accommodate each other’s habits and take a step back from each other. If the other person is not used to staying up late, you should not often be a night owl.
9. Pay attention to your personal image. It’s okay to be plain, but you can’t dress too sloppy.
Don’t let each other mutter in the back of your mind, “So this is what she looks like at home. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Be prepared for the above so that couples have a better trial experience.