It’s good for a man to remember his old feelings, but that doesn’t mean he should be nostalgic. The new epiphany will be even better when you change yourself from your own shortcomings.
First of all, you have to understand that men like to help women, and “being needed” gives men great self-esteem satisfaction. The first thing you need to understand is that men like to help women, and “being needed” gives men a great deal of self-esteem. In many love triangles, whether in movies or in reality, the man often ends up choosing not the one he loves, but the woman he thinks he can’t do without.
Secondly, even if they find a woman’s request troublesome, men generally don’t go out of their way to explicitly reject women. Whether female colleagues, female classmates, female teachers, girlfriends, mothers …… careful observation you will find that men really are rarely refuse women’s requests, but also rarely take the initiative to find something to hurt women, if women are too unreasonable men will only say a “who let her be a woman “. For example, why men caught between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law dilemma, is because both sides are love his woman, favoring which one will hurt the other. The ex-girlfriend is also a woman and loved him, how decisive do you expect him to be with her?
Lastly, you have to realize that the older you get, the more nostalgic people are, and this is regardless of gender. The woman is nostalgic for her own beauty and the stars; the man naturally misses the suave and the charming. There is a woman once loved you, and now still care about you, this small vanity, thinking about it is quite pleasant. If your ex-boyfriend is the first to think of you when you are sad, in your birthday will think of sending you a gift, and girlfriend quarrel will find you to talk and tell you “she really can not compare to you”, how do you feel? The first thing you need to do is to get the best out of it.
Reunions with old lovers almost always end in a hurry because of the gloomy atmosphere, no matter how strong their desire to see each other was before, two hearts don’t collide instantly after years, decades or even decades of separation.
It’s really no big deal for a man to think about his ex-girlfriend once in a while, or even to see one. Perhaps the original breakup has too much helplessness, but if it has become a past tense, then we must learn to forget, who can not go back to the past, people can not always live in the past. The actual fact that you are in love doesn’t mean that you have to possess, sometimes it is good to bless each other.