It is said that women are changeable, but in fact, men’s hearts are more like needles under the sea, making women imperceptible. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
Many women say that after a night of fun, women are still immersed in love, but men can come for three days, a week, or even half a month without a word. This is a lot of women in love often encounter the problem. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
1. The psychology before and after marriage is very different
When in love In the pursuit of happiness, men are doing everything they can, telling well-meaning lies, doing things they didn’t dare to do before, and obeying their girlfriends, trying to mold into the perfect man in women’s hearts, and being quite cooperative in changing themselves. After marriage, men gradually return to the usual track of maintaining themselves. The wife is no longer obedient, but often the left ear into the right ear out, and no longer for each other to change themselves, he thinks that is not the original self, and the heart of the macho make them feel that only the wife to listen to their own, which they listen to the woman! The sudden change of the man so that the woman can not be from, will feel that the man changed his heart, no longer love themselves. This is the woman did not realize that the man in love is the sheep in wolf’s clothing, and after the wedding he is the most real self. Not to the hand before will strive to pursue, to the hand after no longer nervous, no longer at ease, this is the man. If you want to keep him interested in you continuously, the only way is to keep him from getting you.
2. Men’s Intimate Cycle
Every month women have their period. And men also have a few days each month when their hearts are extremely depressed and they can’t lift their spirits. This is the men’s sexual cycle, which is reflected in the intimate cycle of married life. They are following the pattern of intimacy, disengagement, intimacy, to balance their need for both intimacy and autonomy. Seeing men suddenly away from their own, women will misunderstand that men have an affair, that the other no longer love her, suffering from the problem, do not know what went wrong. In fact, men very much need the space of autonomy and unburdened time. They are afraid that they are too dependent and lose themselves. Even if they love a woman again, they also need to be alone. The reason why men escape is to meet the need for “solitude” and “introspection”. Like a rubber band, first completely extended out, in the blink of an eye, it will bounce back, similarly, after a period of avoidance, the man will be a strong desire to love, to stay intimate feeling! Deep inside him, greater passion and urge arise; he wants to give more love to his woman. He wants to get the love he has dreamed of again. At this time, he is more intimate to the woman, there is no rusty feeling, and no need to be distant to close, re-familiar with the “transition period”. When the man disengaged, do not try to chase deep, or to punish them. The more you chase, the more enthusiastic, the more distant and indifferent the other side. This instead pushes men away and blocks their way back.
3. Men own each other differently
The way men and women have each other is very different. Men are the “status quo” school, and their biggest requirement is “don’t bother me” and “don’t make trouble”. The actual fact that many women have a concept of their ideal man in their hearts, but not necessarily to find him, but to find a “malleable” high, can be cultivated in that direction of the man. The concept of running a marriage together, the man should meet this need of the woman to a certain extent. Perhaps in love, you are more acceptable, but after marriage is not so flexible. A person is more receptive to “nurturing, shaping” during a relationship and the early stages of marriage. But how long can this situation last? You know, a man can not be himself, but must be a “cultivated, shaped” model, long-term, not only very tired, and will be very painful. Men need a piece of their own can be a mud ball of their own. In the premise of more cooperation with women, this piece of land is easier to keep. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.