As the saying goes, “There are three treasures in a family, but an ugly wife and a thin field and a broken cotton jacket”, most men are lustful creatures who like pretty girls. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
But when men do get married, they are reluctant to praise their wives for their beauty, and sometimes they may resent it: “They are married, why are they dressed so beautifully?” What do men really think? Why obviously like the beauty of men want their wives are “ugly wife”? The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things.
Men love “ugly wives” after marriage
Siu Ru is a beautiful girl, single when there are many suitors, and finally she chose the clever Li, because he can always say Xiao Ru heart sweet, feel like they are particularly valued. But after the wedding, Xiao Ru found that her husband rarely praised her looks and temperament, and often ignored her dressed up, and often bought clothes and cosmetics for her. The company’s main focus was on the development of a new product, the “new” product.
Man’s sense of security at work
In fact, Xiao Ru’s concern is unfounded. This mentality is very common among men and can be attributed to their “ugly wife mentality”. In general, young and beautiful girls are more attractive to men, which is arguably an evolutionary inheritance. In addition, chasing a beautiful woman will have “face”, vanity also plays a lot of role. So, they will spend a lot of time to pursue beautiful girls, praise their beauty, and even generously buy clothes and so on to please them. At this point men stand as connoisseurs and feel that women are like a delicate work of art, pleasing to the eye, with unparalleled attractiveness and charm.
However, once a man marries a beautiful girl, his sense of vanity is satisfied and his sense of security rises to the forefront, only to seek mediocrity is bliss. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The same can be said for the proverbial “a glass of wine can relieve your worries and an ugly woman can have a white head”.
After marriage, men are more realistic
After marriage, there are subtle changes in the psychology of men who are keen to dress up their wives. Just as all the advantages before marriage become disadvantages, it is not the behavior that changes, but the psychology.
But men are often afraid to admit their concerns and vulnerabilities. When they feel insecure, they rarely communicate openly with their wives to gain reassurance. Instead, they treat their wives with an attitude of neglect, resentment, or even blame, hoping she will stop drawing attention to herself.
In addition, men after marriage generally shift from romance to reality and think more about household expenses, which becomes a reason for them to prevent their wives from spending a lot of money on grooming.
In addition, in the men’s view, a married wife who can’t quietly take care of her children doesn’t quite meet the standards of a good wife and mother after all.
“Beautiful wives” can also be whiteheaded
But it’s important to know that a woman who doesn’t put any pressure on men will only make them burn out, and the necessary grooming of women is also good for physical and mental health and confidence. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. If you just obey your husband in order to avoid conflicts, it will not only damage your self-esteem, but also make the relationship superficial and lack of sincere understanding and communication.
Husbands who are brave enough to express their true feelings and not hide their vulnerability will be more sincerely rewarded and their beautiful wives will still be “safe”.