It is a very personal thing for a man to go out wearing stockings, it does not violate any of the laws of the country, nor does it violate the moral standards of a society, if it is wearing socks inside pants, then it is even less of a violation. But if you use this as a means to cause harm to others and society, then it is harmful to others. You will become fodder to be used to educate others and even go to jail. Remember that this is a complete guide to going out in pantyhose, not a complete guide to the crime of pantyhose. I’m addressing fellow pantyhose wearers like myself, believers in the idea that men can wear pantyhose, that it’s okay to walk boldly in them, that it’s normal and not perverted behavior. It’s like a demonstration, as if animal protectionists would walk down the street naked; against women wearing high heels, men would walk down the street in high heels, and I’m all for men wearing pantyhose before they go out in pantyhose, which is why I’m writing this article here.
To be clear: what I mean by going out in leggings here is not going out in a pair of pants on the outside, and going out in socks underneath the pants, so what’s the point of a guide? This means wearing outer pants similar to large shorts that reveal your calves and even your thighs, which means that your socked legs are fully exposed.
In the eyes of others, there are several attitudes towards men wearing stockings:
1. It’s nice to look at. Usually, men’s legs are not as smooth as women’s legs, especially men with more leg hair. The most important thing is that you have to be able to wear a stocking to make your legs more beautiful. This is why some people think that men look better in stockings than without them.
2. It doesn’t matter.
The first time I saw a man wearing stockings on his legs, I didn’t think much of it, because it was your business to wear stockings, not his.
3. Don’t like it. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. Since the reform and opening up, especially in recent years, in the dress code can be said to have changed a lot. Now if you see a woman wearing a man’s clothing, you will feel very normal, even if it is worn on a woman is a very masculine clothes, you will not feel anything wrong. But if it was a man wearing a woman’s clothing, there would still be people who would find it unacceptable.
4. Feel disgusted. In the human impression, stockings are women’s items, and when worn on a man, the person becomes male and female, making people feel immodest and disgusting.
Either way, as stated above, it doesn’t violate any of the laws of the land or the moral standards of a society, so no one is going to interfere with you. Unless you’re doing something you shouldn’t be doing.
The psychology of men who wear stockings when they go out:
The most important hurdle for men to overcome when they go out in stockings is to overcome themselves. If you’re not walking down the street in stockings, even if your clothes are unkempt, soiled, or torn, you don’t care if people notice you, and you probably won’t pay attention to what others are looking at. But if you are walking on the street wearing stockings, there will be a variety of conflicting thoughts intertwined in your mind: that is, you are afraid to meet pedestrians and want to meet pedestrians, that is, you are afraid to be seen by others and want to be seen by others. So when you first go out, you look for places where no one is looking, and later you look for places where people are walking. This contradictory intertwined psychology can make you especially excited, and at this time you will pay special attention to the eyes of others.
1. If someone walking across the street passes you and doesn’t notice that you’re wearing stockings on your legs, you feel a sense of triumph — I’m wearing stockings so close to my natural skin that he doesn’t see them;
2. If a passerby sees you wearing stockings on your legs, you feel a sense of pride
3. If the people who saw you wearing stockings cut whispers among themselves, you will have a sense of joy – they are talking about the stockings on my legs, right;
4. If you meet someone you know wearing stockings, you will have a sense of fear.
4. If you meet someone you know in your stockings, you have a sense of fear – will he laugh at me, will he tell someone about my stockings, what will they think of me?
And then there’s the feeling that the stockings themselves bring to men:
1. The stockings are on your legs and your legs are wrapped tightly in them – giving you a different feeling than usual;
2. If you choose to take the bus when you go out.
2. If you choose to take the bus when you go out, you can also touch your thighs with your hands when appropriate, and the soft and smooth feeling will make you more excited.
Next, we’ll start with the basics. For first-time homosexuals, there are three basic things to master: timing, location, and harmony.
Timing:
It’s the time to go out, which is the best time to go out?
Between 8pm and 9pm Recommendation Index: ★★★★★
For first timers or those with little experience, this time is preferred. The weather must be hot, and the days are long and the nights are short. The street is not too crowded, but not too small either, which is important and will be discussed in detail below.
In the evening, the recommended index: ★★★★★☆☆
This is before dark, between about five and eight o’clock in the evening, when the streets are rushed, because they have to go home to cook dinner, not many people will care about you, which is very helpful to improve your courage (again, to improve your courage is not to let you go to crime).
Early morning recommended index: ★★★★★☆☆
That is, just after dawn, when the street is less pedestrian, this time to go out, even to the morning stall point to eat breakfast, there will be no big deal.
Broad daylight (overcast) recommendation index: ★★★★★☆☆
Although it is in the daytime, the light is not very strong due to the cloud cover. Even if you walk on the street where there are more pedestrians, you won’t have any major problems.
Broad daylight (plenty of sunshine) recommended index: ★☆☆☆☆
Not recommended for first-timers and those with less experience. This has to wait until your cheek is as thick as a tire before you can try it, and also to choose very suitable stockings to do so (which will be discussed below). Late at night is not recommended that is, early in the morning, the ordinary sense of the middle of the night, whether it is the first time to do or has become the so-called veterans, this time is most inappropriate. The reason is that there is no one on the street, or very few people, and why no one would be bad, I will explain in the “location”.
Location: the place you choose to go when you leave your house.
Someone’s alley is recommended: ★★★★★
Must be someone’s alley, but there must not be many people in the alley, which is good for the initial courage boost. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do. It is best to choose those alleyways that have a bit of storefront, and are the kind of non-open storefront, such as barber stores, beauty salons, small restaurants, small tobacco and miscellaneous stores, Internet cafes, most of these stores are closed store business. And the game room, gift stores, flower stores, mahjong parlors, snack stores and so on is not good, a lot of people mixed, and in front of the door will gather a lot of people, the travel is not good. But never choose the alley without people, that is very easy to make mistakes, but also the most likely to make people misunderstand the place. Because there is no place where people will always walk by, when suddenly someone appears in front of you, regardless of whether you two will be frightened, let’s say you appear in front of each other, the other party will certainly look up and down at you, this is a common sense, more people will ignore you, less people will pay attention to you, this is normal. Your first time out is so willing to let people look at you like that? If the other party is a bloodthirsty person, it is likely to grab you and ask: “What are you doing here dressed like this, a man?” And if the other party happens to be a police officer, I’m afraid you did not do anything he will also invite you to the bureau for tea. Then if a woman, the result is more difficult to imagine. So no matter where you go, veteran or not, you can’t go anywhere without people.
Wide street recommendation: ★★★★☆
Don’t be afraid, guys. A wide street means there’s a barrier in the middle, and people on one side generally can’t get to the other side of the road. You only need to face the people and stores on one side. Such places are easy to cope with, go to the store to buy a pack of cigarettes, buy a drink, weigh some melon, there is absolutely no need to worry about anything, besides, there won’t be many people on such a road, there are fewer people on the wide road, and there are naturally more people on the narrower road, which is also common sense.
Park recommendation index: ★★★★★☆☆
City parks, street gardens, these places are perfect for traveling, and similar to the beach, riverside, lakeside and so on.
Downtown recommended index: ★★★★☆☆☆☆
Downtown is mainly a place where pedestrians are dense, such as Nanjing’s Fuzi Temple, Shanghai’s Huaihai Road, Guangzhou’s Beijing Road and so on. These places are crowded, but passersby are busy going their own way and doing their own thing, and not many people are looking around, which is relatively safer. Due to the large number of people, there may be a lot of psychological pressure on the inexperienced fellow, and often feel very nervous. Don’t go to these places without being fully prepared mentally first.
People and: People and is actually people and not people, in an unfamiliar environment people often dare to do things that they would not dare to do in a familiar environment. The people living around you don’t know each other, which is conducive to travel, and the opposite is not. But strangers will also become acquaintances, with a long time will know, so here to add “location” in the point is to go out as far away from their own living environment. Of course, if your acquaintances know you have this hobby, and are accustomed to it, such an environment is too good to be true, but such an environment there? I think there will be, and it will take some cultivation on your part, just like getting a girlfriend who doesn’t like socks to wear them, and getting a wife who can’t accept your love of legs and socks to accept the hobby.
People and I think it’s also important to have someone to go out with. My chaperone is of course my wife, in her words, “Wear it out if you like, it’s you who’s embarrassed, not me.” As long as there is someone who can travel together with you without a care, the effect will be great, the courage will multiply, and may all of a sudden let you go to places that you normally would not dare to think about. If there are like-minded people going out together like this, it’s also pretty good, which will make people feel alternative, not sick and disgusting anymore. It’s hard to come across this kind of situation, and it’s rare that my wife can go out shopping with me like this (usually after dinner).
These are the three basic elements that you need to know before you go out.
In addition, you have to prepare for the trip.
I. Stocking selection: There is only one thing that needs to be said, and that is the choice of color. The flesh color is recommended for first-timers and those with low experience guts, which is the closest to the skin tone. If it’s a very good stocking, I’m afraid you can’t even tell if you’re wearing socks. Flesh-colored stockings are suitable for travel at any time, and as for other colors, they can be uniformly categorized as special for masters. Flesh-colored stockings are not a panacea, and the material and thickness of the stocking as well as the color of the skin should also be considered when choosing them. Although velvet stockings have good elasticity, they are less transparent and make the legs white in bright light; the stockings of cowhide silk are not as elastic as velvet ones, and their transparency is better than velvet ones, but the reflection is obvious in bright light; the thicker the stockings are, the worse their transparency is, so it is better to choose thin stockings below 15D, and the thinner they are, the better their transparency is. Although crystal stockings have good transparency, they are very elastic and can easily slip, so it is not recommended to wear them when going out. Flash stockings reflect light and natural light, so they are not recommended when going out. The color of stockings should be matched with your skin tone. People with lighter skin can choose light-skinned stockings, those who are not particularly white may choose dark-skinned stockings, and those with darker skin can consider choosing light coffee-colored stockings. Usually stockings are darker in the package, which means that the stockings worn on the legs are lighter in color than the ones in the package, so pay special attention to the color of the stockings when buying them. There is a big difference between good quality stockings and poor quality stockings. Some low-grade stockings are written with the words “velvet”, “high elasticity” and “transparent” on the package, but they are actually stockings with a high percentage of nylon, so the elasticity and transparency of these stockings are not good. The same kind of stockings may be sold at different prices in different places.
Two, the choice of shoes: This is very simple, any shoes, we recommend men’s casual shoes, such as casual leather shoes or travel shoes. For summer travel shopping, it can also be sandals or slippers, only this time it is easy to see the reinforced part of the stocking from the open toe. If you want to cover it up, wearing another pair of short socks over the stockings is also a good way to go.
Three: Mental preparation: This is important for first-timers. Know that you are about to do something rather off the beaten path and be well prepared. To have the ability to solve some unexpected events. For experienced people, I personally don’t think mental preparation is too important. The key to this is “habit”, to put it bluntly, thick skin enough, wearing leggings out will be very accustomed to, that is, used to, and vice versa is not accustomed to. Not used to it will bring a series of psychological changes. For example, walking down the street will be scared, feel awkward and restrained, which will easily attract the attention of pedestrians, thus putting themselves into a more embarrassing situation. It’s not the same when you get used to it, walking down the road and feeling that everything is normal, then everyone’s gaze on you will become normal.” Just look, what’s the big deal.” This kind of mentality is just very good, and in fact no one will bother you, even if he (she) sees you are walking down the street wearing a woman’s stockings, so what? He or she may talk and point behind your back, but with a normal mind, you will find that it is just the same, and it will not cause any trouble for your whole trip, or even for your future life. So the mental preparation beforehand is to give yourself a sense of habit, just as if you hadn’t worn your leggings out, and experienced people wear them out so often that they don’t need any mental preparation to get into the habitual role.
In addition to the above three, you must also familiarize yourself with the road, the stores, some of the roadside, the places you go are likely to have some people, and pay attention to all kinds of lights at night, especially the first-timers may be a little afraid of the lights of the approaching cars, because the darkness of this protective coat is gone, but as long as your mind is as quiet as water, your mind is free of distractions, and you are law-abiding, even if you go into the downtown area, you can be as good as a fish.
As for the masters, they will find more and more challenges, such as taking the bus, taking the subway, traveling by train, flying, going to the game room, shopping in big box stores, big malls, all kinds of stores, or getting a haircut, going to the bank to pay, standing in line to buy tickets, or trying to chat with people in piles, eating at KFC, and so on and so forth, and if you can do it all, then congratulations, you have become one of us!
If you can do it all, then congratulations, you’ve become one of the best people in this category.
What I’m saying here is that the key is your personal guts. Some people post a thread about how much they like to wear women’s stockings, how they want to wear them out, but they don’t dare, asking who can help him out. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.
Maybe you’ll find it too hard to do this after reading this, how can you do it? The truth is, this is really difficult to do, very difficult. If you think this is really difficult, I advise a word: don’t do it. If you want to try to go out in stockings, you have to have good mental qualities and do your best to be mindful. Well, having said that, I hope it will be helpful to you.